nothing is ever good enough

[jordo]

do you whenever you find somone new...keep wanting relationship to be more? like at first you want an acquaintance to become a friend. if they decide to become your friend...you want to become more than friends and so on.

i scare everyone i "meet" whether online or offline to the point where eventually i lose them cuz its never good enough and i want more :? pathetic i know...

 

[sleepysparrow]

This isn't pathetic at all. I know exactly what you mean. I have similar attachment issues to people I meet as well. I always need to be as close as I possibly can get to people, with friendships and relationships. I have a certain kind of dependency and possessiveness about me, I want people all to myself. I'm not saying you're like this, but i'm definately not an easy person to get to know. I can't do casual friendships because they make me feel uncomfortable, I feel I need to know someone inside and out and have a strong connection with someone. I'm sure this is hard to understand because I don't know how to explain it. Maybe you understand?

 

[Ericisme]

I feel the same, you just gotta try not get to attatched to people, never get your hopes up about anything.

 

[weak]

do you whenever you find somone new...keep wanting relationship to be more? like at first you want an acquaintance to become a friend. if they decide to become your friend...you want to become more than friends and so on.

i scare everyone i "meet" whether online or offline to the point where eventually i lose them cuz its never good enough and i want more :? pathetic i know...

what happens after you finally get what you want? do you lose interest?

Seems people always want what they cant have and once they have it, they get bored of it.

 

[StrawberiStars]

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[jordo]

is what i said being attached to people? i thought being attached to someone was like wanting to be with someone even though they dont or broke it off? :? goes to show you how much i know about relationships.

what happens after you finally get what you want? do you lose interest?

Seems people always want what they cant have and once they have it, they get bored of it.

well i never do get what i want cuz always want more. but i think i know what you mean...once you get someone it gets boring cuz the thrill of the chase is gone. which is kind of a problem i have with someone now. what has happened isnt quite what i imagined it would be like. but thats probably cuz nothing significant has really happened. :?

Me too, I'm that way too.
The first person that gives me any attention I become absolutely obsessed with them. I feel like I give off such desperate and needy vibes, it's embarrassing. Also I've never experienced any close relationship with anybody so I always feel like getting physical with the first person that talks to me. Once in Middle school my one friend and I were walking together and she said that I was "walking too close" to her and she told me to give her some space, it hurt so much. I just like being physically close to people and wish to have someone someday where I have no limitations as to where I can touch them.

like i said in your thread...we are a lot alike...but you worded it much better lol. and what happened with your friend is her personal preference and to me, not the norm. i think most middle school girls walk close together and stuff...not that i know from experience lol but actually someone i know was like that...