Next personal goal

dannyboy65

dannyboy65

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I set a new goal for myself. My new goal is to quit smoking, I planned to quit by late November and tomorrow I'm going to start. It will be tough and I will take every tip I can get I really want to quit.
 
MotherWolff

MotherWolff

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dannyboy65 said:
I set a new goal for myself. My new goal is to quit smoking, I planned to quit by late November and tomorrow I'm going to start. It will be tough and I will take every tip I can get I really want to quit.
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Well, you have already taken the first step to quitting and that is to state that you really want(desire) to quit. Great job!
 
MotherWolff

MotherWolff

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dannyboy65 said:
So far I am 3 hours in and doing good. Have a lot of cravings but I push them aside.
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You are awesome!

I don't know what its like to smoke. So I can't even begin to understand how you are feeling right now as you are withdrawing from it.

But I have a compulsive issue with pica, where I will eat foreign material. For me, its usually bath towels.

When the urge comes I challenge my thoughts and then I replace the thoughts with the truth.

For example, I might think, "I just gotta eat some towel. The taste is so fresh and clean. It feels fluffy too. Very clean bath towels remind me of Mommy. Therefore if I do not eat any, I won't make it."

When I realize this thought is wrong, I challenge it, "I don't have to eat any towels. Of course I can live without it."

Then I replace the negative thought with a positive one, "Its not good to eat these towels because they are difficult to digest and have zero nutritional value. I know I miss Mom and she is not well, so I will pray for her and hope for the best. I choose to do something healthy to take my mind off of worry, like exercise."

I don't know if this works for everyone but it helps me alot!
 
dannyboy65

dannyboy65

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MotherWolff said:
You are awesome!

I don't know what its like to smoke. So I can't even begin to understand how you are feeling right now as you are withdrawing from it.

But I have a compulsive issue with pica, where I will eat foreign material. For me, its usually bath towels.

When the urge comes I challenge my thoughts and then I replace the thoughts with the truth.

For example, I might think, "I just gotta eat some towel. The taste is so fresh and clean. It feels fluffy too. Very clean bath towels remind me of Mommy. Therefore if I do not eat any, I won't make it."

When I realize this thought is wrong, I challenge it, "I don't have to eat any towels. Of course I can live without it."

Then I replace the negative thought with a positive one, "Its not good to eat these towels because they are difficult to digest and have zero nutritional value. I know I miss Mom and she is not well, so I will pray for her and hope for the best. I choose to do something healthy to take my mind off of worry, like exercise."

I don't know if this works for everyone but it helps me alot!
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Believe me this addiction sucks. I'm getting cranky, stressed, anxious and can't stop thinking about my addiction. I'm not going to give in even though this is the worst I have felt in a long time.
 
migthymask

migthymask

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I've started to study German this weekend, so I hope I can understand it in six months, I've started a new exercise work out yesterday, I hope complete it in 3 month, so let's go ahead :)
 
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