new to the forum, suffering with social phobia

[greggy]

Hey lovely people! Ok so iv felt disliked and targeted for abuse for a long time now I expect people to dislike me, I've got to such a low point in my life now that I've had to ask my wife to come with me to drop off our doughter at her school because I am sure that no one likes me there, I would be happy if I never left the house again, I feel like I've been coursed and see the way other treat other people and compare it to how im treated and its very different, I honestly feel that I look unlikable as peopel only need to se me and they dislike me. I dont even now why im here I am certain that this is real and now in my head, I would love this to be some kind of dalusional paranoia but its not I guess I need to accept that I am disliked. Im not sure if I can live the rest of my life knowing that I am unaccepted by everyone I meet.

 

[DeadmanWalking]

Welcome to the forum.

And you are not disliked by everyone. The fact that you have a wife and a daughter should be ample enough proof to the contrary. Now, there will be people who hate you for no other reason than "just because", but that isn't your fault and not your concern. You should still go out and try to make new friends, but, if they don't like you, then move on and find someone else.

 

[gummybear22]

it's hard for me to find people i jive with, especially ones i can talk to and have a good conversation with them. at school i just have some class friends, which is better than nothing, though i wished i had some hang out people. you might be able to make some friends here, especially since loads here can identify with you. as for the people at your daughter's school, just keep tryin and maybe find a group that has some of them in it and yall have a common interest.

 

[anomicdeer]

Welcome greggy.

I know we are talking in the chat right now but you are not the only one that think this way. Sometimes we may think that someone doesn't like us but we can't be sure. Just like we are going through something, they could be too. Or they are curious. If they don't like us, I think we'd be sure.

There are some people who are ridiculous and will show that they don't like someone.

 

[greggy]

Firstly thanks so much for your help already I feel like I could make friends here, its funny my brother is completely different to me he really doesnt care if anyone doesnt like him, however me, I analise evevery look, every time im ignored, I feel that when I speak to anyone im bothering them and they a insulted by my presents. Its funny I've always wanted to be an actor but never went for it as I felt I am not likeable enough to be on the tv haha