Toad
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So, I'm starting a summer internship next week, and am pretty much freaking out. There is my normal "I hate doing new things/meeting new people" type freaking out, but I'm used to that and can hide it. But there is also a freaking out because the information they sent me about working there said my offer of employment is dependent on me passing a "substance screening test". That's fine and all...I don't do drugs...hell...I don't even drink, but I'm assuming they will want me to take a pee in a cup while a person is standing in the bathroom to verify that is what I am actually doing.
I simply can't do that...I can't pee when someone is watching me or waiting on me...I have paruresis. Of course no one knows about this except me, and I would like to keep it that way, so what can I do? If I refuse to take the drug test, they won't let me work there...they may not even let me work there if I can't give a urine sample (which I won't be able to no matter how much I want to). I really don't want to tell them that I am not capable of giving a sample...I don't particularly like the idea of saying "I'm fucked up" on my first day of work which is what I would basically be doing. Is there any way around this?...What should I do?
I simply can't do that...I can't pee when someone is watching me or waiting on me...I have paruresis. Of course no one knows about this except me, and I would like to keep it that way, so what can I do? If I refuse to take the drug test, they won't let me work there...they may not even let me work there if I can't give a urine sample (which I won't be able to no matter how much I want to). I really don't want to tell them that I am not capable of giving a sample...I don't particularly like the idea of saying "I'm fucked up" on my first day of work which is what I would basically be doing. Is there any way around this?...What should I do?