Desperate_Attempt
New member
Hello everyone,
I've been diagnosed with OCD. I knew that I've had it for a long time but it really started to come out in just the past three years. In the past three years, I've dealt with illogical thoughts pertaining to Health and Religion, to work and my relationship.
I've been diagnosed just this past month. I've been on medication to help treat this disorder for the past week, while I've been going to therapy for the past month!
Anyway, my latest OCD has a lot to do with my relationship to my fiancee, and it's scaring me. I've been having thoughts wondering if she is the one for me or not, or do I really love her. I absolutely love her and I can't picture my life without her. There are times I feel such a joy in my heart to have her in my life and then my mind takes over and questions that love for her. I've told her that I'll be dedicated and devoted to her for the rest of my life, and I still want to do that but my mind throws in thoughts of what my life would be like apart from her. My mind also tells me whether my saying "I love you" to her is real and genuine or not. My mind also throws the thought of whether or not my smiles are fake. I feel I have the incessant need to be euphoric all the time, which anyone will tell you, you can't be eupohric all the time in a relationship. I understand all of the logical thoughts to counteract the illogical ones but it doesn't seem to be getting through! I'm feeling sad and depressed because I can't get sleep like I want to (because of Anxiety and/or withdrawing from an Anti-Anxiety med).
As for my fiancee, she told me that she'll always support me no matter what I'm going through and that she'll be there for me. She hasn't done anything to make me think that I should leave her or not love her (i.e she doesn't cheat, isn't an alcoholic, isn't into drugs, etc.) but my mind is being totally irrational.
I guess what I'm looking for is someone in this forum who knows what I'm going through or understands what I'm going through and how they had coped with this. My biggest fear is that I'll come out into the light at the end of the tunnel and realize that all these thoughts are in my heart. That bothers me the most, since I don't want to lose my fiancee. If there's anyone out there who can help me, plase, I'm desperate and I need help. Sorry for the long post but I'm really scared to death about what I'm going through. Thank you!
I've been diagnosed with OCD. I knew that I've had it for a long time but it really started to come out in just the past three years. In the past three years, I've dealt with illogical thoughts pertaining to Health and Religion, to work and my relationship.
I've been diagnosed just this past month. I've been on medication to help treat this disorder for the past week, while I've been going to therapy for the past month!
Anyway, my latest OCD has a lot to do with my relationship to my fiancee, and it's scaring me. I've been having thoughts wondering if she is the one for me or not, or do I really love her. I absolutely love her and I can't picture my life without her. There are times I feel such a joy in my heart to have her in my life and then my mind takes over and questions that love for her. I've told her that I'll be dedicated and devoted to her for the rest of my life, and I still want to do that but my mind throws in thoughts of what my life would be like apart from her. My mind also tells me whether my saying "I love you" to her is real and genuine or not. My mind also throws the thought of whether or not my smiles are fake. I feel I have the incessant need to be euphoric all the time, which anyone will tell you, you can't be eupohric all the time in a relationship. I understand all of the logical thoughts to counteract the illogical ones but it doesn't seem to be getting through! I'm feeling sad and depressed because I can't get sleep like I want to (because of Anxiety and/or withdrawing from an Anti-Anxiety med).
As for my fiancee, she told me that she'll always support me no matter what I'm going through and that she'll be there for me. She hasn't done anything to make me think that I should leave her or not love her (i.e she doesn't cheat, isn't an alcoholic, isn't into drugs, etc.) but my mind is being totally irrational.
I guess what I'm looking for is someone in this forum who knows what I'm going through or understands what I'm going through and how they had coped with this. My biggest fear is that I'll come out into the light at the end of the tunnel and realize that all these thoughts are in my heart. That bothers me the most, since I don't want to lose my fiancee. If there's anyone out there who can help me, plase, I'm desperate and I need help. Sorry for the long post but I'm really scared to death about what I'm going through. Thank you!