nervousness around women... | Page 4

no1 · 2009-06-17T10:14:47+00:00

Do women not know how to act when someone around them is nervous? Do they always have to reflect it back to you in some way and treat you differently? I guess this is the case for me. I'm usually nervous around women, and end up being treated differently. They are distant, treat me like a creep...

vegitotwo Jul 18, 2009 at 12:26 PM #61

no1 said: ↑
pretty much. but I don't know why you wink at me when you say shit like that.

He's messing joking with you, hoping it would lighten you upbut it failed

no1 Jul 18, 2009 at 12:28 PM #62

it just sucks that I have to be alone before I can even get better. how do I get better alone? I've been alone all my life, and all I can see is torturous suffering ahead. Right now I'm to the point that I can't even have any kind of personal relationship with anyone without it causing problems. I am completely dysfunctional. I'm 23 yrs old and I haven't even STARTED on a bachelors degree yet.

I don't think anyone will put up with my faults unless I am super great.

no1 Jul 18, 2009 at 12:32 PM #63

why am I dysfunctional? Because I AM a social pariah. Claimed to be so by governmental institutions and "govern".

Sinar_Matahari Jul 18, 2009 at 6:53 PM #64

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just forget it. it's pointless.

btw I've tried professional help: it doesn't work. or at least the one I went to.

One shouldn't give up so easily. If it's any help I read that CBT is used to treat insomnia. Sometimes with drugs and sometimes without. Oh and that traditional Chinese medicine and aromatherapy works too. Good luck.

Jannah Jul 18, 2009 at 9:54 PM #65

no1 said: ↑
it just sucks that I have to be alone before I can even get better. how do I get better alone? I've been alone all my life, and all I can see is torturous suffering ahead. Right now I'm to the point that I can't even have any kind of personal relationship with anyone without it causing problems. I am completely dysfunctional. I'm 23 yrs old and I haven't even STARTED on a bachelors degree yet.

I don't think anyone will put up with my faults unless I am super great.

I'm 21 and just going to start college this September, so I know how you feel.