My boyfriend's ex-girlfiend

[Meili]

My boyfriend has a childish, ignorant, crazy ex. She keeps texting and calling him along with her friends say things like "your girlfriend is ugly" "not even a dog would get with you" and my personal favorite "if I find out where your girlfriend lives i'll make her disappear". hooray for harassment and my boyfriend won't do anything.

So I was thinking, should I just totally destroy her? Or at least just an aspect of her social life? I mean I believe I have the power, it's not hard, I think it would be fun. Teach her a lesson. But I wouldn't tell my boyfriend, and I don't know if keeping that from would be worth it.

I didn't mind it so much when they first broke up, but now it's been nearly six months and it's getting old. You may say "Call the police" but I don't think my boyfriend will forgive me if I do. He still cares about her well-being, because they dated for 2 years or so. But she just became more and more psycho. And I can see his tendancy to always warn me every time he encounters a girl what their relation is, such as a cousin or godsister because his previous girlfriend was so overbearing and jealous.

Thinking that my sweet and caring boyfriend was ever in such a situation with a crazy ungrateful b****, makes me kind of want to hurt her. It's not like she wouldn't hurt me if she had the opportunity.

 

[79_89_99IneIneIne]

so, what does this have to do with social anxiety??

 

[Riiya]

[Riiya goes paranoid kthxbai.]

 

[Meili]

iunno, i saw several posts in this particular forum that looked like that they weren't associate much with SA so i thought it was okay to post it here.

forgive me if i'm mistaken and ignore this post.

 

[Meili]

And I can see his tendancy to always warn me every time he encounters a girl what their relation is, such as a cousin or godsister because his previous girlfriend was so overbearing and jealous.

Are you sure that's the reason? It sounds like somebody needs to take a step back and recognize what the real problem is.

So I was thinking, should I just totally destroy her?

I mean I believe I have the power, it's not hard, I think it would be fun. Teach her a lesson.

Thinking that my sweet and caring boyfriend was ever in such a situation with a crazy ungrateful b****, makes me kind of want to hurt her.

I don't know you and I obviously can't judge you, but I can't say these statements make me want to get to know you better.

They also say boys' taste in girls don't change, so you may want to be careful. What you say about your boyfriend's ex may also apply to you.

i don't mind if he has female friends, unlike her.
it just angers me when she hurts someone i love.

 

[Remus]

iunno, i saw several posts in this particular forum that looked like that they weren't associate much with SA so i thought it was okay to post it here.

forgive me if i'm mistaken and ignore this post.

you posted in the freindship and love section and thats fine hun

 

[Rodox]

You are with him now,be happy with him thats the wrost thing you can do to her,IMO,if you are sure he has nothing to do with her now,why bother?

 

[miss_amy]

Best thing to do is both ignore her. Kicking off without an audience soon gets very boring.

 

[Hoth]

If you try to ruin her life, you make her potentially more dangerous if she finds out you were involved. You don't want to give a psycho more motivation to hurt you.

It seems like blocking her phone number would go a long way. The fact that she can get through and get a response from him is presumably what keeps her going for six months.