My son has had OCD for just over three years. He will be turning 15 in a few weeks. It began in his last year of elementary school and gradually became worse until, last year, it was awful. I am not sure if it became worse because we tried a few different medications which had bad side effects, or if it was just a downward swing, but he has improved significantly since then.
His OCD is in the form of intrusive thoughts with compulsions and he has also been through cognitive behaviour therapy that helped. He is still up and down and his frustration and anger over the OCD and how it is controlling his life is completely understandable but his teen behaviour, overlaid with this, is just wearying.
My question is this - is it possible for his OCD to lessen as he moves out of the teen years and he learns to cope with his various stresses (school being the main one)? I have a friend who has lived with OCD all her life and she said it was much worse when she was younger. I never knew she had OCD until I told her about my son. I never noticed it in her but a few things now fall into place that I can see were due to OCD. It wouldn't have crossed my mind unless she told me.
I suppose I am looking to hear positive stories. I was very scared last year by what was happening and it was made all the worse by an acquaintance's son committing suicide. He had OCD amongst a few other diagnoses and I was terrified my son was headed in the same direction. I am not thinking this way now given his marked improvement but I still wonder if he will be able to function as an independent and happy adult. Any thoughts?
His OCD is in the form of intrusive thoughts with compulsions and he has also been through cognitive behaviour therapy that helped. He is still up and down and his frustration and anger over the OCD and how it is controlling his life is completely understandable but his teen behaviour, overlaid with this, is just wearying.
My question is this - is it possible for his OCD to lessen as he moves out of the teen years and he learns to cope with his various stresses (school being the main one)? I have a friend who has lived with OCD all her life and she said it was much worse when she was younger. I never knew she had OCD until I told her about my son. I never noticed it in her but a few things now fall into place that I can see were due to OCD. It wouldn't have crossed my mind unless she told me.
I suppose I am looking to hear positive stories. I was very scared last year by what was happening and it was made all the worse by an acquaintance's son committing suicide. He had OCD amongst a few other diagnoses and I was terrified my son was headed in the same direction. I am not thinking this way now given his marked improvement but I still wonder if he will be able to function as an independent and happy adult. Any thoughts?