I am not sure of much recently. I thought I had this SAD thing kicked somewhat. In My high school days I had the typical problems that I see from other posts,dating, jerks ect. School absolutely almost killed me though, it was the worst time of my life.
After school things got a lot better. I stopped caring what people thought. I stopped trying to find a girl. I got a job that payed well. Odd thing is that when I stopped looking for a girl is when I found one. She thought I was cool. I took her to a lot of my hiding places that I would go to on my motorcycle to get away.
Fast forward to today. Recently had 20 year class reunion that I could not go to. I have told myself the past is just that and that I have forgiven those that hurt me. But I just could not do it. My job.... Promoted many times.....just came to a end. I am jobless for the first time. My wife, wow do not know where to start. Cold for a long time, sleeps in another room. Has become real irritating now that the money is not coming in. I am sure we would have split up by now if it was not for our 10 year old kid who I love very much.
The pass few years is the only time I ever seeked any help. I always did my best to do the "normal people stuff" by putting a smile on my face and manning up despite how I feel. Recently this way of living has sent me to the E.R. many times. The drugs the doctors gave me only made me feel worst. The only drug I am on now is a benzo. Wish I could get off of that but I just can not do it at this time. On it now for three years.
I do not know how much of this is a rant but I got to change something. Funny how after chasing down my demons and over thinking every thing I can solve so many problems for other people but remain clueless on my own. Perhaps I have been living a lie and just do not want to face it.
So many regrets and missed opportunities in my past. I do not want any more regrets but that is all I see in my future no matter how I make future decisions.
What are your thoughts on this? Is this a midlife crisis thing or a SAD thing that I managed to not see the warning signs of? Should I just mannup again and get a job and put my head in the sand?
After school things got a lot better. I stopped caring what people thought. I stopped trying to find a girl. I got a job that payed well. Odd thing is that when I stopped looking for a girl is when I found one. She thought I was cool. I took her to a lot of my hiding places that I would go to on my motorcycle to get away.
Fast forward to today. Recently had 20 year class reunion that I could not go to. I have told myself the past is just that and that I have forgiven those that hurt me. But I just could not do it. My job.... Promoted many times.....just came to a end. I am jobless for the first time. My wife, wow do not know where to start. Cold for a long time, sleeps in another room. Has become real irritating now that the money is not coming in. I am sure we would have split up by now if it was not for our 10 year old kid who I love very much.
The pass few years is the only time I ever seeked any help. I always did my best to do the "normal people stuff" by putting a smile on my face and manning up despite how I feel. Recently this way of living has sent me to the E.R. many times. The drugs the doctors gave me only made me feel worst. The only drug I am on now is a benzo. Wish I could get off of that but I just can not do it at this time. On it now for three years.
I do not know how much of this is a rant but I got to change something. Funny how after chasing down my demons and over thinking every thing I can solve so many problems for other people but remain clueless on my own. Perhaps I have been living a lie and just do not want to face it.
So many regrets and missed opportunities in my past. I do not want any more regrets but that is all I see in my future no matter how I make future decisions.
What are your thoughts on this? Is this a midlife crisis thing or a SAD thing that I managed to not see the warning signs of? Should I just mannup again and get a job and put my head in the sand?