mid-date rejection
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toothpastekisses
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JonnyD
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It depends really how it is put , but i think that i would do the same toothpastekisses said, i always do it (not always sucefully)
but i dont really know , since i never get a date...
The best thing is to be yourself. If someone's like it good , If someone don't better luck to them.
I'm not telling you shouldn't fight SA, you're not your problem, i know it because i don't show/do many things because i'm afraid with no reason - SA - if you think you need to get more confidence in yourself, go get it.
I'm also not telling that the girl is kicking you, i don't know, what i know is that rejection happens and we need to deal with it.
OFFTOPIC: i don't know if i would always get a date, i can't invite a girl to go out , for the sole porpouse of analysing if she fits me or not. To me it looks imoral, She's a person as alive as me.
but i dont really know , since i never get a date...
The best thing is to be yourself. If someone's like it good , If someone don't better luck to them.
I'm not telling you shouldn't fight SA, you're not your problem, i know it because i don't show/do many things because i'm afraid with no reason - SA - if you think you need to get more confidence in yourself, go get it.
I'm also not telling that the girl is kicking you, i don't know, what i know is that rejection happens and we need to deal with it.
OFFTOPIC: i don't know if i would always get a date, i can't invite a girl to go out , for the sole porpouse of analysing if she fits me or not. To me it looks imoral, She's a person as alive as me.
well what were you talking about when she said that?
I wouldn't necessarily interpret it as rejection, but I know what you mean. My guess is that a lot of people consider low self-esteem a major turn off, because the person is too insecure. I imagine the only way around this issue is acting phony, which I don't recommend. Have you tried some type of therapy? Maybe it would help you with this?
cannotbefound
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oh please..you heard it wrong!!its a myth.an old hairy legend.
oh please..you heard it wrong!!its a myth.an old hairy legend.
nofriends34
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Wow that's rough, sorry to hear that. I've never been on a date but if a girl said that to me I wouldn't know what to do. Just another reason for me to be afraid to talk to people.
boo_hoo_76
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I've had post-date rejections, but if it was mid-date, outta here! And how much confidence does she have ? :roll:
boo_hoo_76
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I've had post-date rejections, but if it was mid-date, outta here! And how much confidence does she have ? :roll: