Mental forks in the road

[Lost_Nomad]

does anyone find it really hard to make decisions, even about simple things. I can't even go to the store without knowing exactly what i want, if its not there i strangly start to panic . other things like going places, its hard to go out even if i have a place to goto, but it gets worse when i have no place to go, just walking for the pleasure of walking is not very pleasurable, i need to have some plan of where i will walk and such in order to do it. its crazzy becuase the other day i went grocery shopping and had a idea of what i was going to buy, it turned out i couldn't find something and ended up panicing becuase i couldn't find it, i felt like i was being timed or something. it makes me brake out into full anxiety. :?

 

[redlady]

I am also incredibly indecisive. I find it hard to trust my own judgement.
And like you i also find it hard to go out anywhere just for the sake of it - i have to have a purpose - a pursuit, or otherwise forget about it.

 

[Lost_Nomad]

Me too, i second guess myself about every thing. whats so annoying is that i brake into a sweet over such small things like a can of sause. its like those people who lose their short term memory and end up having to write down every thing they are going to do for the day before hand. I guess i should have a backup plan of every thing i do just in case. :lol:

 

[Lost_Nomad]

This used to be a double post and it made rickey laugh. :lol:

 

[Richey]

Oh! the Irony of the double post made me laugh.

 

[4myself]

Yep, I need a reason to be going anywhere to. Otherwise I just cant be bothered.

 

[lucidity]

Your post made me laugh cause I have the exact same problem but I never realised until I read it.
If I go into a store, I have to a specific thing that I have to buy. And if i can't find what i need I suddenly become this crazy nervous person and run out of the store. To go clothes shopping is the worst :?

 

[justsomebloke25]

I'm also very indecisive. I can never just pick something. I have to sit and consider all the alternatives for like an hour :lol: Eating out at a restaurant is awful cos I just look at the menu and can't decide what I want to have.

And I too have to have a purpose before going anywhere. I can't just browse in a shop.......I have to know what I want, walk in, grab it, pay and then get out!

I never thought that these were related to SP though but maybe it is.

 

[young]

You wouldn't happen to be female would you? no offense if your not. Most females I've ever dated could never make up their mind on what they wanted.

Often times I find myself doing that. I can never deceide weather it's the chicken or fish. I could be going to rent a movie and spend an hour perusing the whole selection to find out what I want.... Nowadays I try and use my gut instict for me decision making. Sure it could be disastrous, but sometimes you just have to take the bad with the good.

 

[Boundless]

I am exactly the same,i cant go out for a walk unless i have a destination,walking for the sake of just getting out doesnt work for me i need a place to go like a shop.