I've been at uni for 3 months now and I'm really struggling to make friends. I'm living in halls and during freshers week I went out and tried to socialize but I found it so hard. I'm naturally very shy but have been able to make friends in the past easily. It's really quite depressing. Admittedly I haven't made much of an effort to join societies and clubs but I find the thought of going to these places alone terrifying.
I have nothing at all in common with any of my flatmates, and as I'm so different from them I find it hard to act like my normal self. I think my friends from home who i've known for years would say i'm quite outgoing when i'm around them, which is how i'd like to be around people at uni but I'm finding it so difficult.
I've become a sort of recluse now, I barely come out of my room. I'm not being dramatic or paranoid but I swear people avoid talking to me because conversations with me are really awkward and boring. I can't muster up any banter with anyone because I'm so depressed about the whole situation. It's got to the point where I've just given up all together with making friends. I'm just wondering how i'm going to get through the next 3 years of my course with no friends, I have acquaintances, people who i'll sit with at lunch or in a lecture but no actual friends who i'd go out with or spend time with outside uni. I don't know what to do, anyone else been in a similar situation?
I have nothing at all in common with any of my flatmates, and as I'm so different from them I find it hard to act like my normal self. I think my friends from home who i've known for years would say i'm quite outgoing when i'm around them, which is how i'd like to be around people at uni but I'm finding it so difficult.
I've become a sort of recluse now, I barely come out of my room. I'm not being dramatic or paranoid but I swear people avoid talking to me because conversations with me are really awkward and boring. I can't muster up any banter with anyone because I'm so depressed about the whole situation. It's got to the point where I've just given up all together with making friends. I'm just wondering how i'm going to get through the next 3 years of my course with no friends, I have acquaintances, people who i'll sit with at lunch or in a lecture but no actual friends who i'd go out with or spend time with outside uni. I don't know what to do, anyone else been in a similar situation?