Left behind in life - i can't take it any more
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Paahi
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^I feel the same.
Please rethink what you are saying! Get yourself admitted to a hospital, tell your family how you feel. There is Life after SP! I have looked into the eyes of a loved one who has had a family member commit suicide. It is the most horrifying memory I have. If not for your sake, get help for there's.
Don't judge your life by how other peoples lives appear. Some have it easier, but I promise you that everyone is wrestling with their own demons. Nobody has a perfect life. You need to get help ASAP!
Don't judge your life by how other peoples lives appear. Some have it easier, but I promise you that everyone is wrestling with their own demons. Nobody has a perfect life. You need to get help ASAP!
WeirdyMcGee
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I feel exactly the same... and it's hard to think otherwise when you're agoraphobic and don't leave your room/don't have any friends/don't have a job/ have no self value-- looking at the people you graduated from highschool with who are all finishing university and moving to exotic places, getting married and having children...
but you know what?
Everyone takes it at a different speed.
Everyone is meant to do different things.
Everyone makes mistakes and learns from them > so, if we've made a mistake by not doing anything with our lives perhaps it is time to learn from it and just do our best to enjoy life in our own way from now on rather than end it?
but you know what?
Everyone takes it at a different speed.
Everyone is meant to do different things.
Everyone makes mistakes and learns from them > so, if we've made a mistake by not doing anything with our lives perhaps it is time to learn from it and just do our best to enjoy life in our own way from now on rather than end it?
maiato
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I got the feelings of all of u. Although i didnt left the Uni I finished but will never work on what i just studied a lot. Got on good marks, for nothing. And sometimes that feels worst than giving up. What do i explain to ppl ? They seem to think that i just dont want to work...but that time is passing by and cant cover a lie further more. I also feel alone, complety out of nothing. No friends almost at all. No socializing life, not family to. But there always tomorow, there is always a hope of past green days. I didnt been like this forever and it wont last forever 2. I just need to learn how to live like who i'm. Addapting myself to less pain possible. And that is not a mirage. I know i can do it. So do U!!
Later in life is better than never. Rethink your goals and try to move forward on your own terms. My SA kinda stopped me from a lot but I've had great experiences... It's just finding others or keeping on good terms with people that I have most trouble with. Count the good times and try to get pass the bad ones.
mart22n
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Find the steps that will get you further in life, then. Write down little and bigger things you want to achieve. Life's a game anyway, and I've read from a scientific source (Amazon.com: Bioenergy in Practice (9789985711453): Ardo Parna: Books) that when you kill yourself, your future will be WAY DARKER THAN YOU COULD IMAGINE (i.e. your life so far is nice and easy compared to what will follow 
).
Doing the right thing might drastically change your mood in a single day (i.e. yesterday I went to the streets questioning people's opinion on social phobia. Got positive responses).
).Doing the right thing might drastically change your mood in a single day (i.e. yesterday I went to the streets questioning people's opinion on social phobia. Got positive responses).