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This post is about two abusive mods named remus and Danfalc.
Please read this entire post, then you can judge the situation.
I recently was banned by the moderators called Remus and DanFalc against all logic. They banned me because I questioned why they had removed a post of mine and closed a thread. I went about my question via PM, but I was given a warning for merely asking a question. A post of mine was deleted that did not deserve to be deleted, fact. It was a post in a thread by a member called SickJoke who wanted us to criticize or continue the discussion of the previous poster. I did exactly this: I criticized the post of a member called J_brown2, and then started a new topic by saying that I enjoy reading books on mathematics (which someone had to criticize or continue with.) The topic was to be able to deal with rejection, which incidentally happened to be what the moderators did to me. J_brown2 then responded to my post in a way that the moderator, Remus, did not like. Instead of only deleting J_brown2’s post, he deleted my post as well, which had nothing to do with J_browns post. The mods, f**ked up, simple. Remus and Danfalc f**cked up, simple. This was an irresponsible and incorrect decision by the Moderators, to see the thread, look here; I am the member named Saen: http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/the-rejection-game-17378/ I even followed the rules and continued a new discussion after responding to SickJoke.
I’m not letting this issue go because
J_Brown2 then responded to my post (I thought he would PM it to me), and I responded to him in the thread, at the same time, responding to another post at the same time. Later, because J_Brown2 and I had been talking to each other over a long time, Sickjoke criticized us for not sticking to the rules. I duly APOLOGIZED to Sickjoke for deviating from the rules http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/the-rejection-game-17378/page-6/. The topic then went back to its original topic and everything was fine.
But, the member DanFalc closed the thread because he said there was flaming going on. This was a false decision as the discussion between J_Brown and I was finished (no flaming going on), and I had already continued the topic with SickJoke (who has in some ways also been unfairly treated by the mods). I am fully aware that a thread should be closed if flaming hasn’t stopped. But IN THIS CASE THE FLAMING(which was joking around) HAD STOPPED, and therefore there was no reason to close the thread as it was normal again (this is how all forums operate.) It was closed in direct reference to my and J_brown2’s posts (if it was an issue of the thread idea, it would’ve been closed from the very start, which it wasn’t) Again, it was the moderator’s fault for doing this. It was a bad decision, and deserved to be criticized.
I then, later in the day, questioned the reason why my post was deleted with J_brown2’s. I encouraged J_brown2 to respond to my post via PM, as I did not see his original response. To see my post, look here: http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/the-rejection-game-17378/page-3/
I then sent a PM to Danfalc, in order to question why the thread had been closed; as well as why one of my posts had been deleted. He simply told me that I have got a warning for questioning a moderators decision. And if I responded again, he’d ban me; THIS IS WHEN THE SHIT HIT THE FAN. Currently, I am banned. Remus still insists on keeping me banned for a week; that is the last straw.
Here is a PM I sent to Danfalc, which I kept in Microsoft word:
“”My first message in the topic was completely following the rules of the thread - it was deleted for some unjustified reason (which I'd like to know why) and I then referred back to the post with J_Brown in order to get clairity on the situation, which I didn't get. From there on, because I referred back to J_Browns post, everything kinda got derailed. Please forward this message to Remus, and please don't abuse your rights as a moderator and tell me that my original post was deleted because is was inappropriate. My original post followed the rules; it was a mistake on the moderator’s part that it got deleted. Not mine. Again, please forward this to Remus. Thanks. “”
If you look at the posts by my profile “saen” you will see that all my posts are clean.
As a result, I tried to kill myself because of the anxiety and feeling of rejection. The mods did not show any humility in their responses to me, nor did they take it upon themselves to listen, and they did not even realize that as a person suffering from Social Anxiety, I’d be severely traumatized by such an event. I felt bad that the thread had been closed unfairly, and angry at the same time. They did not negotiate, take my opinion into account or listen to what I had to say. They rejected me, unjustly, from this community knowing I am a sufferer of Social Anxiety.
Remus and Danfalc are two cruel moderators who do not understand the human aspect of such a situation and did not go about their business in a moral way whatsoever. Please, make a thread, post a comment, but make these two mods aware of their DISGUSTING CRUEL BEHAVIOR.
I will continue to spam these boards with this message until they make a public apology for banning me, as I AM OUTRAGED by their behavior. And you should be as well.
They failed with their responsibilities as moderators. DanFalc then went on to lie about me posting comments on his profile, which was done by another person or a random troll who read my thread (an indication that some people besides me are also disgusted by their behavior). I stated clearly that I will continue to spam these boards WITH THIS MESSAGE, as I have done nothing wrong to deserve the ban. There would be no incentive for me to leave abusive comments on Danfalc’s profile, as I am innocent to begin with and did not deserve a ban (I’d have nothing to gain and everything to lose from doing that). For all I know, Danfalc probably created the accounts himself to help his reputation (which has been justly humiliated by this post). Moderators should not lie to cover their asses. DO NOT trust this judgmental, uneducated liar of a moderator. Of all the forums I have come across in my life, this has to be one of the worst managed ever. I am stating the facts of the situation. ALL I wanted was an explanation; instead I got a warning.
It seems that if these two moderators are still unable to admit the flaws in their ways, and their incorrect deletion of a post. They still insist on not apologizing for my banning, closing a thread that was calm, and deleting my post, and they still see it as a positive thing they did. This proves that these two mods have a complete lack of character (perhaps they came out of abusive homes and this is the only psychological means to get back at the world, by doing exactly what happened to them) This is when the victim becomes the perpetrator.
The moderators are wrong, and they can’t admit it. I can’t accept such arrogance, neither should you, as you too could be treated like this on this site. I will send this message to all new members; it is up to them to decide if they will want to stay. I don’t give a shit if I get totally banned – I belong to other social-anxiety related sites that are far better than this one anyway. This one has just annoyed me beyond a level I can handle.
If this you are disgusted by this site, you can always join other social-phobia sites: Social Anxiety Forum - Powered by vBulletin (a bigger and better community than this one) and Social Anxiety Forums
Or go here for a variety of links to different sites:
Social Anxiety UK - Links (very useful link)
The moderators have behaved badly, and they will be taught a lesson in humility. All they have to do is admit their failure and this issue will be done, I will leave this site forever. All I ask for is an apology. I will fight and not back down to the very end for that which is right. I have had my reputation ruined on this site because some spineless mod couldn’t admit they were wrong – there is no point in trying to get my membership back. If something is unjustified and wrong, I will argue it to the end, regardless of whether I get banned or not.
Members are allowed to be criticized for their failings, so should mods. If they can’t even acknowledge that they f**ked up, they’ll just be inconveniencing you, the members. I’d rather give up my membership than wait out my 7 day, unjustified ban. Do you actually want to know why he banned me in the end? I posted a thread asking what people think of abusive power, as I was feeling rather anxious as a result of Danfalc’s comments. I ask what people thought of abusive people in power positions, be it your father or boss. Not once was Danfalc mentioned, as we only communicated via PM, and it was an issue I was genuinely concerned about. He BANNED because I felt offended by people in positions of power. This reeks of cowardice. He banned me as a result of a genuine issue of mine, and was a concern of mine, and it was an issue of personal social anxiety at the time. He had no right to remove the thread, yet another example of how he neglected his duties as a moderator, and banned me for ‘personal’ reasons. I understand that he might think he has a big ‘internet penis’ and strut his stuff because of his position on the forum, but he is a twat of note. Join another site - don’t waste your time here.
To be banned and threatened by highlighting a mistake by the mod is UNACCEPTABLE. Mods, like normal people, are fallible. Fact is, the mods f**ked up. I wasn’t a troll to begin with, but they fu*ked with me and turned me into one. My questions have still not been answered, which is a great indicator that they know they did wrong, and have no answer because they are in a corner now. Again, fact is, a post of mine was deleted for no reason what so ever; the mods still haven’t apologized I wouldn’t be surprised if the mods edit my posts and PMs to demonize me, as from my experience with them, this kind of behavior is not beyond them. They’re not ‘just doing their job’ as moderators - they distinctly ****ed up at that task. I hope this post completely destroys their reputation on this forum. If anything, at least this saga will educate the moderators on how to deal with these situations. And until they admit they’re wrong, they will remain, undoubtedly, intellectually stunted, spineless cowards. These two moderators assume they are sitting on some moral high-ground, but neglect to see that the very ground they’re sitting on is putrid and dead. When you’re in a position of power, be it a moderator, it does not give you the right to neglect the basic principals of fair interaction. Is it really that hard for them to admit that they may have been out of line? I don’t feel like spamming these boards anymore, as I think I’ve put the mods through a similar amount of discomfort I went through. There is a lesson to be learnt from this. Think about it:
Stand up against the bullies in your life that gave you this disorder; peace be with you.
Life is simple; people make it complicated.
This post is about two abusive mods named remus and Danfalc.
Please read this entire post, then you can judge the situation.
I recently was banned by the moderators called Remus and DanFalc against all logic. They banned me because I questioned why they had removed a post of mine and closed a thread. I went about my question via PM, but I was given a warning for merely asking a question. A post of mine was deleted that did not deserve to be deleted, fact. It was a post in a thread by a member called SickJoke who wanted us to criticize or continue the discussion of the previous poster. I did exactly this: I criticized the post of a member called J_brown2, and then started a new topic by saying that I enjoy reading books on mathematics (which someone had to criticize or continue with.) The topic was to be able to deal with rejection, which incidentally happened to be what the moderators did to me. J_brown2 then responded to my post in a way that the moderator, Remus, did not like. Instead of only deleting J_brown2’s post, he deleted my post as well, which had nothing to do with J_browns post. The mods, f**ked up, simple. Remus and Danfalc f**cked up, simple. This was an irresponsible and incorrect decision by the Moderators, to see the thread, look here; I am the member named Saen: http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/the-rejection-game-17378/ I even followed the rules and continued a new discussion after responding to SickJoke.
I’m not letting this issue go because
J_Brown2 then responded to my post (I thought he would PM it to me), and I responded to him in the thread, at the same time, responding to another post at the same time. Later, because J_Brown2 and I had been talking to each other over a long time, Sickjoke criticized us for not sticking to the rules. I duly APOLOGIZED to Sickjoke for deviating from the rules http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/the-rejection-game-17378/page-6/. The topic then went back to its original topic and everything was fine.
But, the member DanFalc closed the thread because he said there was flaming going on. This was a false decision as the discussion between J_Brown and I was finished (no flaming going on), and I had already continued the topic with SickJoke (who has in some ways also been unfairly treated by the mods). I am fully aware that a thread should be closed if flaming hasn’t stopped. But IN THIS CASE THE FLAMING(which was joking around) HAD STOPPED, and therefore there was no reason to close the thread as it was normal again (this is how all forums operate.) It was closed in direct reference to my and J_brown2’s posts (if it was an issue of the thread idea, it would’ve been closed from the very start, which it wasn’t) Again, it was the moderator’s fault for doing this. It was a bad decision, and deserved to be criticized.
I then, later in the day, questioned the reason why my post was deleted with J_brown2’s. I encouraged J_brown2 to respond to my post via PM, as I did not see his original response. To see my post, look here: http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/the-rejection-game-17378/page-3/
I then sent a PM to Danfalc, in order to question why the thread had been closed; as well as why one of my posts had been deleted. He simply told me that I have got a warning for questioning a moderators decision. And if I responded again, he’d ban me; THIS IS WHEN THE SHIT HIT THE FAN. Currently, I am banned. Remus still insists on keeping me banned for a week; that is the last straw.
Here is a PM I sent to Danfalc, which I kept in Microsoft word:
“”My first message in the topic was completely following the rules of the thread - it was deleted for some unjustified reason (which I'd like to know why) and I then referred back to the post with J_Brown in order to get clairity on the situation, which I didn't get. From there on, because I referred back to J_Browns post, everything kinda got derailed. Please forward this message to Remus, and please don't abuse your rights as a moderator and tell me that my original post was deleted because is was inappropriate. My original post followed the rules; it was a mistake on the moderator’s part that it got deleted. Not mine. Again, please forward this to Remus. Thanks. “”
If you look at the posts by my profile “saen” you will see that all my posts are clean.
As a result, I tried to kill myself because of the anxiety and feeling of rejection. The mods did not show any humility in their responses to me, nor did they take it upon themselves to listen, and they did not even realize that as a person suffering from Social Anxiety, I’d be severely traumatized by such an event. I felt bad that the thread had been closed unfairly, and angry at the same time. They did not negotiate, take my opinion into account or listen to what I had to say. They rejected me, unjustly, from this community knowing I am a sufferer of Social Anxiety.
Remus and Danfalc are two cruel moderators who do not understand the human aspect of such a situation and did not go about their business in a moral way whatsoever. Please, make a thread, post a comment, but make these two mods aware of their DISGUSTING CRUEL BEHAVIOR.
I will continue to spam these boards with this message until they make a public apology for banning me, as I AM OUTRAGED by their behavior. And you should be as well.
They failed with their responsibilities as moderators. DanFalc then went on to lie about me posting comments on his profile, which was done by another person or a random troll who read my thread (an indication that some people besides me are also disgusted by their behavior). I stated clearly that I will continue to spam these boards WITH THIS MESSAGE, as I have done nothing wrong to deserve the ban. There would be no incentive for me to leave abusive comments on Danfalc’s profile, as I am innocent to begin with and did not deserve a ban (I’d have nothing to gain and everything to lose from doing that). For all I know, Danfalc probably created the accounts himself to help his reputation (which has been justly humiliated by this post). Moderators should not lie to cover their asses. DO NOT trust this judgmental, uneducated liar of a moderator. Of all the forums I have come across in my life, this has to be one of the worst managed ever. I am stating the facts of the situation. ALL I wanted was an explanation; instead I got a warning.
It seems that if these two moderators are still unable to admit the flaws in their ways, and their incorrect deletion of a post. They still insist on not apologizing for my banning, closing a thread that was calm, and deleting my post, and they still see it as a positive thing they did. This proves that these two mods have a complete lack of character (perhaps they came out of abusive homes and this is the only psychological means to get back at the world, by doing exactly what happened to them) This is when the victim becomes the perpetrator.
The moderators are wrong, and they can’t admit it. I can’t accept such arrogance, neither should you, as you too could be treated like this on this site. I will send this message to all new members; it is up to them to decide if they will want to stay. I don’t give a shit if I get totally banned – I belong to other social-anxiety related sites that are far better than this one anyway. This one has just annoyed me beyond a level I can handle.
If this you are disgusted by this site, you can always join other social-phobia sites: Social Anxiety Forum - Powered by vBulletin (a bigger and better community than this one) and Social Anxiety Forums
Or go here for a variety of links to different sites:
Social Anxiety UK - Links (very useful link)
The moderators have behaved badly, and they will be taught a lesson in humility. All they have to do is admit their failure and this issue will be done, I will leave this site forever. All I ask for is an apology. I will fight and not back down to the very end for that which is right. I have had my reputation ruined on this site because some spineless mod couldn’t admit they were wrong – there is no point in trying to get my membership back. If something is unjustified and wrong, I will argue it to the end, regardless of whether I get banned or not.
Members are allowed to be criticized for their failings, so should mods. If they can’t even acknowledge that they f**ked up, they’ll just be inconveniencing you, the members. I’d rather give up my membership than wait out my 7 day, unjustified ban. Do you actually want to know why he banned me in the end? I posted a thread asking what people think of abusive power, as I was feeling rather anxious as a result of Danfalc’s comments. I ask what people thought of abusive people in power positions, be it your father or boss. Not once was Danfalc mentioned, as we only communicated via PM, and it was an issue I was genuinely concerned about. He BANNED because I felt offended by people in positions of power. This reeks of cowardice. He banned me as a result of a genuine issue of mine, and was a concern of mine, and it was an issue of personal social anxiety at the time. He had no right to remove the thread, yet another example of how he neglected his duties as a moderator, and banned me for ‘personal’ reasons. I understand that he might think he has a big ‘internet penis’ and strut his stuff because of his position on the forum, but he is a twat of note. Join another site - don’t waste your time here.
To be banned and threatened by highlighting a mistake by the mod is UNACCEPTABLE. Mods, like normal people, are fallible. Fact is, the mods f**ked up. I wasn’t a troll to begin with, but they fu*ked with me and turned me into one. My questions have still not been answered, which is a great indicator that they know they did wrong, and have no answer because they are in a corner now. Again, fact is, a post of mine was deleted for no reason what so ever; the mods still haven’t apologized I wouldn’t be surprised if the mods edit my posts and PMs to demonize me, as from my experience with them, this kind of behavior is not beyond them. They’re not ‘just doing their job’ as moderators - they distinctly ****ed up at that task. I hope this post completely destroys their reputation on this forum. If anything, at least this saga will educate the moderators on how to deal with these situations. And until they admit they’re wrong, they will remain, undoubtedly, intellectually stunted, spineless cowards. These two moderators assume they are sitting on some moral high-ground, but neglect to see that the very ground they’re sitting on is putrid and dead. When you’re in a position of power, be it a moderator, it does not give you the right to neglect the basic principals of fair interaction. Is it really that hard for them to admit that they may have been out of line? I don’t feel like spamming these boards anymore, as I think I’ve put the mods through a similar amount of discomfort I went through. There is a lesson to be learnt from this. Think about it:
Stand up against the bullies in your life that gave you this disorder; peace be with you.
Life is simple; people make it complicated.
