Jealousy!

[Moon4]

I'm jealous of people who are social.
I'm jealous of people who can go outside without thinking hours!
I'm jealous of people who can eat outside!
I'm jealous of people who have many real friends! (I mean in real life.)
I'm jealous of people who can show their love!
I'm jealous of people who can say whatever he/she wants!


I have so much jealousy inside of me and that is painful! I have some friends and whenever I see them, I feel jealousy. I feel bad about that, I can't tell it to them and I feel like two-faced. :: Can anyone give me an advice? I don't want to be like that! I hate myself because of that! ::

 

[Beatrice]

I wish I was good at giving advice The only thing I can say is, I know how you feel. As do many here, I'm sure.

I'm not going to give you the "don't give up" thing today because I'm feeling rather worn out and hopeless myself.

Good luck though, and if you need to talk you can always shoot me a message.

 

[Beatrice]

I think most of us are a little envious of people who don't have SA, and 'seem' to have great lives, but you can't compare your insides to somebody elses outsides.

Great quote there.

 

[dyingtolive]

but you can't compare your insides to somebody elses outsides.

 

[dyingtolive]

there are also alot of people i 'wouldn't want to be'..

 

[dyingtolive]

its fragile how ppl can mess up their lives, and how fast it could all happen. in a spin of a wheel or in a blink of an eye, u can throw it all away or it could all be taken away from u. things that may have happened or have been done in the past could also have an effect until forever.

perhaps the same is true too in the upside. it can take so little to get someone out of their shell. in could happen fast too.

 

[Bustn Justin]

Being jealous gets you to feel like crap about yourself. Just find something you enjoy and build on that. Everybody is good at something; just takes time to figure that out.

 

[kihira]

Just an untested thought - maybe jealousy happens when we judge ourselves against others, believe that they are better than us, and then wish to be the same? When we judge ourselves we tend to be unfavourable to us and overfavourable to them, creating an untrue gap. If we dont judge ourselves or others and just accept that we are all equal but with different strengths/weaknesses, then does jealousy fade?