Everyone gets shy on some leve it's normal. It's when shyness overtakes your everyday life is when it becomes a problem. Like if you feel shy around a girl you have a crush on. That's normal. If you get shy around everybody, then you got a problem. shyness is a quality of someone's personality. But shyness can be beaten. You learn how not t be shy with enough experience. When you just sY so what I feel shy" and laugh about it. You won't feel anymore in that situation. If you view shyness as a negative aspect of yourself then you'll createca problem out of it. Laugh about how shy you get. Laugh about how you feel. Laughter is medicine.