Is this illness really treatable.

Egmanns

Active member
Ive been trying for like 2 years to beat this and face social situations daily but i still find it hard to talk. I use CBT. What are your views on what treatment is best and is it treatable?
 

ppaul

Well-known member
i think your own qoute/signature answers your question.

ive already resigned myself to the fact its gonna take a long time, but its do-able im sure.
 

IcanDoIt

Well-known member
yes its treatable, but i thought this illness is supposed to be chronic..means long term..

u just need that motivation to get u moving..move u all the way towards success..

and usually that motivation comes in 1% percent chance..

i got that 1%..

i donnoe whether it lucky or what..
 

UnbreakableShell

Active member
Is SA hereditary ? My dad was quiet guy, or maybe just shy. I'm damn shy as hell, so shy that it's starting to affect important aspects in my life. It's like I forgot how to make friends. The funny thing is I actually know some people, but I am afraid to hang out with them because I know they will end up hanging out with different people.

It could also be some self-esteem and confidence problem. It's this feeling I get, I keep telling myself; "I don't think I can become a 'normal' person, since I'm already stuck in this little barrier, theres no coming back."
 

Ads7800

Well-known member
UnbreakableShell said:
Is SA hereditary ? My dad was quiet guy, or maybe just shy. I'm damn shy as hell, so shy that it's starting to affect important aspects in my life. It's like I forgot how to make friends. The funny thing is I actually know some people, but I am afraid to hang out with them because I know they will end up hanging out with different people.

It could also be some self-esteem and confidence problem. It's this feeling I get, I keep telling myself; "I don't think I can become a 'normal' person, since I'm already stuck in this little barrier, theres no coming back."

I would say that hereditary predispositions and self-esteem are two huge factors in play. But environmental factors are most likely the more potent ones, in my opinion. The way sufferers were raised and treated as a child and/or a teenager by peers and family is one of the prime examples.
I can most definitely relate to the self-esteem and confidence problem of yours.
Will we ever get out of this place?
 

Crimefish

Well-known member
I think it is treatable for most people, but by treatable I mean you can improve (however slightly). I don't think it's curable.
 

scarecrow

New member
:D

I hope that it is controllable, because I'm in the same predicament as yourself. I think that you have to understand the many different facets of the disorder and know each recovery procedure in-side-out (CBT, etc). I hope this small bit of advice is some help!
 

ballohate

New member
I'm sure it depends on the individual, and circumstances. I tried everything. Jack Daniels works best. This sucks.
 

JoeRandomUser

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I believe it is treatable; cureable is too strong a word, in my opinion, because I reckon even the most confident people out there still have the occasional bad day. Noone is confident 100% of the time.

I know that it's possible to make progress because I have seen progress in myself. It's hard, and it is an excrutiatingly slow process, but I can see changes in my life compared to where I was a year ago. I hope one day that I will enjoy social situations rather than fear them. This is my goal. I'm using CBT, btw. No meds.
 

JoeRandomUser

Well-known member
That's quite an inspirational story, nickabcuk... thanks for posting that. I like reading about people who have beaten SP -- it keeps me going when I feel that I've hit the wall (which is often). Sometimes I think it's easier to believe that you can never get over SP just so you don't have to make the effort to keep trying. I know I've made this mistake more than once... self-defeating thinking is an easy trap to fall into.
 

GettingThere

Well-known member
There is a Psychologist who claims to be a former SA/SP sufferer who runs courses to help sufferers, here in Brisbane.

The point I wish to make here is that they must have recovered fully to be able to run such courses.
 

halflife

New member
Hellraising said:
No, once you have it, you have it for the rest of your life.

Itend to agree with hellraising you can just learn to deal with it better desensitization drus all them things can help but its a bit like being an alcoholic its very easy to slip up and go back to the same feelings etc, its not curable...thats my opinion and im welcome to it :)
 

Conquer

Member
It’s treatable (hell even curable) if you want it to be. But it takes hard work, dedication and facing your fears. Not self-pity, avoidance and staying within your comfort zone.
 

sabbath9

Banned
Re: cbt may be harmful

I just found a new therapy for social anxiety disorder. It's called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). There's a book on amazon.com and a website, www.acceptanceandcommitmenttherapy.com I believe this may "cure" our problem.

Four years later, I can say that ACT won't "cure" SAD, but it does help a lot. I've gone from being housebound and unable to work to being fully employed and working at the office daily. CBT did make me worse and ACT has reversed my downward spiral. Anyone struggling against their own mind and body owes it to themselves to investigate ACT. I'm hoping for even further progress in the next four years.
 

Remus

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Staff member
Wow CBT made you worse? it worked wonders for me, everyones different at the end of the day though, I'll check ACT out, I've heard about it but never gone down that road, I gather it's a specialised branch of CBT
 
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