In desperaten need of a humor:(

[billy]

Well as it goes i missed out on highschool due to sa. Now im 17 trying to make friends and at least have a half decent college experience. I made a friend and went out with his friends around 10 times and had fun but i never said a word to them unless asked a question. And when i answered it was all fast and couldnt be understand. Recently i got into a fight with my friend and he said you know your as interesting as a tree and noone likes you. I know he said this because he was mad but i cant help but think its true. Jw if anyone has tips to help me make people laugh. Maybe some tips as it seems i cant think of any jokes or even if i do think of one its 30minutes too late

 

[Reholla]

people tell me i am pretty funny, so i thought i would reply to this. but i have no idea how to tell you to be funny... I mean to me funny is just finding humor in everyday situations.. its laughing at yourself, and with your friends. its being comfortable in your own skin. you could be like my grandpa and memorize jokes. but those get old REAL FAST. my uncle has his jokes numbered lol cause hes heard them all!!

my friends and i have all these inside jokes. like we call people "silly goose eggs!" haha... and we say "lets just.... fill in the blank" like lets just make a bunch of new friends! lol i dont know i say this all the time. these are all from HS if you cant tell!! i mean one time my friend made a list of all our inside jokes and it was like front and back of pages long.

but now, let me see the funniest thing ive seen is my guy friend told this girl that "her dog is a nerd like urkle" lol i laughed so hard when i saw this.

umm what else. oh a good (and funny) pick up line is "why are you single? do you like not take showers?"

haha some ones told me that before and ive actually used it too. lol

so i dont really know what else to tell ya! Dont think about it so much. Just find humor all the time. Sometimes im by myself and something funny will happen. you just have to be looking for things and they will happen.

 

[Richey]

I once ate an entire jar of peanut butter, and I didn't even have a spoon!"

 

[Infected_Malignity]

you don't need to make yourself funnier, you just need to have a more lighthearted view of life. taking things too seriously/personally will really sap your energy on a day to day basis. just relax and enjoy the ride if you can!

 

[billy]

When ive gone out with my friends friends i guess i was just surprised by how easily their jokes came out so easily. I guess i did have alot of anxiety each time i went out but i wanted to talk. I wanted to try and get to know em better its just i had nothing to say. And yeah the comments made me laugh a little. But i guess i jsut wanna try being the center of attention and maybe known as funny rather then uninteresting and noone notices im there.

 

[billy]

I know having sa makes what i want hard but the people in my class are very outgoing and nice i feel maybe if i was put in the situation id have the courage to crack a small joke

 

[Marie_knowsbestt]

yeh humour aint really something u can sit and think of then say. it comes from everyday things and off the top of ya head usuauly.

people say im funny an all. mainly coz im such a air head at time, things just seem to happen to me in everyday life, so i usualy got a story to tell.

like this one time. i was up the city centre waiting for a friend. just sitting there. and this older bloke, about 40? comes up to me. and opens his bag. he tells me about how he lines the inside of his bag with tin foil to stop the shop alarms going of when he steals things. and then shows me all the stuff he's nicked. before i know it. im sitting there with a rizzla in my hand, while hes putting tabacco and cannabis in it to make a joint haha and i didnt even notice i was doing it. so i get up like 'gotta go now mate...good luck with ya shopping...'' hes like ''ok love (kisses my hand) cya later'' and i just walk off looking really confused hahaha!!

but yeh, most of me and my mates sorta joke about by taking the piss out of eachother and laughing at ourselfs, or taking the piss out of things in everyday life. me and my best mate laugh at eachothers moaning. u can find humour in anything really. but then i think thats all typical british.

 

[billy]

still in need of more tips still humorless lol