If You Didn't Have Social Phobia...

[xSleepy]

So what if you didnt have social phobia, or you managed to get rid of it??? What would you really want to do with your life? How would it be different from now?



EDITED: geez, I cant believe I wrote about my "secret dream"... thats embarrassing :roll:

 

[sidney]

This will sound very weird but id love to get rid of my SP, ive wished so long and hard yet if i got rid of it completely i think i wud be like everybody else which i dnt want. I want there to be something special about me that makes me stand out from others
i think i want something good that makes me diff instead of SP but since i havent go that right now id miss my somewhat unique SP but only SLIGHTLY my overall descision wud be to get rid of it
if i did i would love to be an actress earning millions and having a blast with people on a film set

 

[jayo]

I'd like to go out on a Friday night - feel relaxed - connect with people - make new friends - drink nothing or a little - come home and feel happy and warm inside and so on.

I'd like to have a partner and children - go camping - and the rest.

I'd like to feel like I have a purpose or identity.

But anxiety has always got in the way of all of this.

 

[ooSOULCRYoo]

So what if you didnt have social phobia, or you managed to get rid of it??? What would you really want to do with your life? How would it be different from now?

... I always wanted to become a hair stylist or a fashion designer, but I feel that I cannot pursue a career in the fashion or beauty industry cause of my social phobia. How would my life differ from now? I would be somewhere actually doing something besides sitting in front of my comp.

 

[thequietone]

I would love to find a small group of friends who I could form comfortable, deep relationships with. People I belong with. And of course... perhaps a boyfriend...someone I wouldn't be afraid of, someone who clicks with me so that it feels natural to be close to them.

So basically---a handful of people outside my family to belong with. To actually, possibly have fun with.

I think if I could relax I might achieve something close to this dream. There's nothing else I would change about myself. But I guess that's a pretty big thing to ask for.

 

[Infected_Malignity]

No real worries here either way. I'd probably be the same person I am now, I'd just talk a little more. Actually though, I do find myself talking more lately...


I guess I have to say it out in the open - I don't think I'd change anything. I mean everybody changes through life over time, but for once in my life it just feels good to be me.

 

[PhantomPod]

I would love to find a small group of friends who I could form comfortable, deep relationships with. People I belong with. And of course... perhaps a boyfriend...someone I wouldn't be afraid of, someone who clicks with me so that it feels natural to be close to them.

So basically---a handful of people outside my family to belong with. To actually, possibly have fun with.

That's exactly what I would want.

 

[Some_guy]

Damn, anyone else feels like it would be surreal not to be socially anxious? The thought of a normal life most of the time seems so weird to me.

Anyway, if I didn't have SA..

-I would take singing, dancing, acting lessons.
-I'd learn many musical instruments.
-Make friends and create a social circle. Why not get a girlfriend, though it wouldn't be a top priority.
-I would go back to school, to learn as much as I can!
-PARTY!

 

[rado31]

social phobia is a part of me, i just want it to be lessen.

I was on a good way to where i want 10 years ago.(mainly i have same dream as a quietone but i would also like to connect to some people from many natural science areas to work and hang out.)

 

[sab_07]

Meet new people, go out, truly be able to enjoy myself, come home and not beat myself over the head but instead be happy about what I did.

Follow my favorite band around. (Drive somewhere away from home by myself)

Get guitar lessons.

Get a part-time job.

Have a best friend or two who I won't run away from.

 

[Kayla]

Travel the world, meet new people, play an instrument and let someone listen. I'd like to have a best friend as well.

 

[AquariusOutkast]

This would be a dream come true. meet new people who share the same interest. Go to different exotic restaurants and bars. Go on a road trip. Drive to the beach with the top down and watch the sunset, sunrise with a guy I like.