I want to make friends

[bebo]

Hello there, firstly I would like to introduce myself.

I am a 21 years old girl,

I feel I cannot make really true friends, no matter how hard I try they always move on and stop talking to me... It's a fastidious feeling because after a period of time, they stop being nice and I feel like if I were bothering them with my messages...
I am really shy when I have to talk in real life and when I try I look very clumsy and the conversation is not interesting. On the internet I can express myself so I don't have to look at the person and I can think my words.
I am really complicated to relationships because I cannot connect with people. I am not an interesting person and people can tell it.... I feel very lonely most of the time and I think it will never change.

I would like to help people in the same situation.
I like listening to people and also being listened.


I hope we can talk together...
Please feel free to add me.

Thank you

 

[MotherWolff]

Hello there, firstly I would like to introduce myself.

I am a 21 years old girl,

I feel I cannot make really true friends, no matter how hard I try they always move on and stop talking to me... It's a fastidious feeling because after a period of time, they stop being nice and I feel like if I were bothering them with my messages...
I am really shy when I have to talk in real life and when I try I look very clumsy and the conversation is not interesting. On the internet I can express myself so I don't have to look at the person and I can think my words.
I am really complicated to relationships because I cannot connect with people. I am not an interesting person and people can tell it.... I feel very lonely most of the time and I think it will never change.

I would like to help people in the same situation.
I like listening to people and also being listened.


I hope we can talk together...
Please feel free to add me.

Thank you

:applause::applause::applause:

 

[April72]

It's not easy to have true friends. I also put a lot of energy in it bc for my personality disorder I have not many friends. So, when I find someone I really like I invest time and love in it.
I also find easier to communicate in the written media. I feel less anxiety and I think I can be my real me.

I hope you have luck!

 

[MotherWolff]

It's not easy to have true friends. I also put a lot of energy in it bc for my personality disorder I have not many friends. So, when I find someone I really like I invest time and love in it.
I also find easier to communicate in the written media. I feel less anxiety and I think I can be my real me.

I hope you have luck!

I agree all the way with you on this!:thumbup:

 

[bsammy]

i find it very difficult to make friends..the only way i have made them in the past is through school or work where you are stuck together day after day and then u eventually end up hitting it off..making friends outside of work and school is so much more difficult..i mean true friends, not just drinking buddy types..

 

[April72]

Guys, don't know if you agree with me but another possibility to make friends is online. In forums like that.
I agree with bsammy, work and job are the ones that give you the most opportinities. In a second place, for me, it's the forums and on the third place, through hobbies and other activities. For example, the last person I met and became friends was in a park where I was walking my doggies.

 

[Beza]

Over the years since I left college my friends have just drifted away and moved on with their lives. My work colleges are older than me so its hard to connect with them. When I do meet someone new I get all quiet because I just have nothing to talk about.

 

[Corrs63]

Hello.
We could be friends if you need one.

 

[Argentum]

I'm a clumsy person, too, so I can relate. I've knocked into quite a few things over the years, but thankfully haven't knocked over any expensive equipment yet.

Sometimes it's like the world wants me to lay down and die, because the more I try to do things for myself the more I find myself going in a circle. Everything from starting activity clubs to working freelance puts you at a massive disadvantage if you have no friends, and the advice is always to turn to them as a core group of attendees or help with advertising.