Copy and pasted from yahoo answers, which I deem an unusable service now. This situation would be awkward for someone without social phobia but with social phobia it is VERY stressful. Any advice, relating, or stories are welcomed.
So basically I'm in my early 20s and a huge homebody (no hate please). Anyways this old friend that I hadn't had any contact with for a year or two calls me up and ask to borrow something. I comply and a couple weeks later he comes back to my house with the item. He then starts telling me about his life and friends (I have no irl friends so it was a one sided conversation)
Long story short, all his friends are druggies and criminals (I have no problem with people who smoke weed but there are two types of stoners: those who enjoy relaxing with some bud and those who smoke weed and take part in a lot of shady business). Anyways, this guy sells weed and cocaine. I think he wishes he didn't take the path he did and is looking for friends that are more reliable, not using him, and aren't criminals. However, I don't want to be involved with his B.S. and would rather be alone (foreveralone.jpg) than have anything to do with this guy.
The guy is friendly and good hearted but you know... I also would go ape **** if we were hanging out and he invited some of his friends over or we went to his friends house. His friends are all dbags who would just take the piss out on me and I'd rather not have to deal with that sooooooo...
Thanks for listening to my rant and now for the question.
How am I suppose to tell this guy I don't want to hang out with him? He's already planning things for us to do like sporting events, etc.
Also he lives less than 10 min away from me and I'm related to him so f***....
So basically I'm in my early 20s and a huge homebody (no hate please). Anyways this old friend that I hadn't had any contact with for a year or two calls me up and ask to borrow something. I comply and a couple weeks later he comes back to my house with the item. He then starts telling me about his life and friends (I have no irl friends so it was a one sided conversation)
Long story short, all his friends are druggies and criminals (I have no problem with people who smoke weed but there are two types of stoners: those who enjoy relaxing with some bud and those who smoke weed and take part in a lot of shady business). Anyways, this guy sells weed and cocaine. I think he wishes he didn't take the path he did and is looking for friends that are more reliable, not using him, and aren't criminals. However, I don't want to be involved with his B.S. and would rather be alone (foreveralone.jpg) than have anything to do with this guy.
The guy is friendly and good hearted but you know... I also would go ape **** if we were hanging out and he invited some of his friends over or we went to his friends house. His friends are all dbags who would just take the piss out on me and I'd rather not have to deal with that sooooooo...
Thanks for listening to my rant and now for the question.
How am I suppose to tell this guy I don't want to hang out with him? He's already planning things for us to do like sporting events, etc.
Also he lives less than 10 min away from me and I'm related to him so f***....