I met a girl who also has SA, But...

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Skooter

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I met this girl on myspace tonight. I sent her a friend request cause I was bored and wanted someone to talk to. Well we got to talking and she eventually gave me her screen name. We talk on there for a bit and she admitted that she had SA. I was like WOW and from that moment on I was real comfortable talking to her. Well she is really sweet and very pretty. Thing is she drinks a lot. Heck she even admitted to me that she was an alcoholic several times. I don't think shes full blown alcoholic I just think she drinks to take the pain away. She wants to hang out sometime soon.

My question is, Should I be concerned about her drinking problem? I don't like for my friends to drink a lot due to the long term effects. Is there any way that I can show her that drinking isn't the best thing?
 
worrywort

worrywort

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I think I'd be concerned, but I wouldn't hold it against her. I think you should definitely give her a chance, cause we've all got weaknesses. I mean, are there any weaknesses or addictions or flaws in your personality that you'd hope she'd give you a chance in, and not give up straight away?

I'd imagine if you talked to her about it she'd probably be well aware that drinking can be destructive and would probably like to quit.....it just eases her pain so effectivly she probably finds it extremely hard.

as for advice to discourage her from drinking, I'm not too sure...I only know that if it were me, if my drinking was such that quitting was a real struggle, then that'd be a sign that it has too much control over me and I should probably quit.
 
ThaKid416

ThaKid416

Member
drinking, problem????? wtf is that???? lol im playing...mayb she just needs someone in her life to help her with her drinkin problem, and if you do you get bare vag points
 
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Skooter

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I didn't mean to imply that I was going to give up on her. She just moved
here so I'm going to hang out with her some and see how it goes.
 
proudmummy

proudmummy

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Nah don't be worried about the drinking, she might actually calm down with it if she has someone she can relate to about SA so it might be a good thing if you meet up. I hope you do and I hope it goes well. I'm sure shes like me, I'm drinking often but not reliant - I could stop if I wanted to - but I've been percieved as an alcoholic jokingly by friends so I've kind of got that tag now and use it myself.
 
jamez

jamez

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And what are the long term effects of drinking? Lighten up, hang out and drink a few with her.
 
N0D

N0D

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I drink a ton and I don't have any problems. The only problem I ever has is people trying to convince me not to drink so much. :rolleyes:
 
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