I;m suppose to start voleeyball on tuesday!!!!

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Yup, Tuesday... and I ;m really anxious.
I play really well when not observed by teachers or trainers.. now I will be observed. and there's also that little thing called socializing .. it's a long ride home with my friend.. and I will have nothing to say to her... and I can't take another dissapintment.. I really cant'; bear it... not just cuz I cna';t take it anymore, cuz I'm afradi of loosing her :(
 
divethruhaze

divethruhaze

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chained said:
and I will have nothing to say to her...
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watch/read some news/articles on the internet, that's what i do (i find it interesting to read abt these stuff anyway), just mention the stuff that might interest them, say something like "hey, you heard about that that new x-ray scanner that pictures you naked in airports?" The answer will be yes or no. if its yes, ask what they think about it, if its no tell them about it and ask for their opinion. the conversation is then started ;)

and good luck for the volley
 
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divethruhaze said:
watch/read some news/articles on the internet, that's what i do (i find it interesting to read abt these stuff anyway), just mention the stuff that might interest them, say something like "hey, you heard about that that new x-ray scanner that pictures you naked in airports?" The answer will be yes or no. if its yes, ask what they think about it, if its no tell them about it and ask for their opinion. the conversation is then started ;)

and good luck for the volley
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yea, my therapist recommended that...but still I'm really anxious... thx a lot for the support.. I;m going cuz I gotta fight this. and I'm almost 17.. my msn is [email protected]
 
Phobologist

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Just be yourself and let them dislike you for not having anything cool to say. Things cant get anyworse than they already are, right? You have to find out what the root of your fear is.
 
Remus

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Phobologist said:
Chained send me a pic of you in the vollyball shorts and I will let you know if you have anything to worry about.
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how is that supposed to help?

complete lack of tact there, how many warnings does it take?

this is now you third and final strike, usually mods dont warn on the boards but PMs dont seem too effective with you

back on topic please
 
agoraphobickatie

agoraphobickatie

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chained said:
I;m going cuz I gotta fight this.
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that shows your strength right there, that you can even acknowledge that fact is awesome! if it's the ride home, surely you guys can talk some about the game, right? about things that happened or things that made you happy or mad, ya know? that's something about sports, as long as i know what's going on, there's always something to talk about! haha.. and anyway, even if you are way too anxious and can't find anything to talk about, you can just pretend you're super tired from the game! hehe :) but i think you'll certainly be fine!! good luck to you! :D
 
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Remus said:
how is that supposed to help?

complete lack of tact there, how many warnings does it take?

this is now you third and final strike, usually mods dont warn on the boards but PMs dont seem too effective with you

back on topic please
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thank you!!!!! :D
 
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agoraphobickatie said:
that shows your strength right there, that you can even acknowledge that fact is awesome! if it's the ride home, surely you guys can talk some about the game, right? about things that happened or things that made you happy or mad, ya know? that's something about sports, as long as i know what's going on, there's always something to talk about! haha.. and anyway, even if you are way too anxious and can't find anything to talk about, you can just pretend you're super tired from the game! hehe :) but i think you'll certainly be fine!! good luck to you! :D
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thx a lot... really good advise :)
 
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