i like him so much./...

nerdgirl178

nerdgirl178

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Hello I am new here. I work with this guy (different departments but same company) for some months now (since June of this year), and I really like him. I think he knows I like him because he smiles at me and looks at me from the corner of his eye. I don't think he likes me though. I have SP and I really hate it of course like all of you here, it keeps me from doing the things I want to do. I just want to go up and start a conversation. He has helped me at work, say hello etcera, but nothing much. I smile nervously when I see him and I am afraid that is a turn off for a guy if I actually start talking to him because I may blush and start sweating and stuff. He is so very handsome, and tall (just the way I like them), and I am, well my nick says it all, lol, I wear glasses, I like to read history books and stuff, and he is seriously a stud, no joke! He has a great personality. I know plenty of people on this board could relate to me. What should I do? What should I say the next time I see him? Its so hard to be alone. Actually once we were alone in the elevator and I said nothing! I hate myself for not saying a peep! I just stared at the elevator door, ugh! Can anyone give me some advice on what should I do, it would make me feel a lot better. Even if I am not his type at least I tried. when I was 16 I fell for a guy, it took me three years to get over him and I never told him how I felt or nothing. I just don’t want this guy to get away from being too shy. Thank You.
 
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LilMissTragic

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What great time, Christmas is coming up, hows about sending him an xmas card, maybe with a little note...be brave, go for it. Its better to know either way wether or not you have a chance, I hope you do. Good luck :)
 
MRnomates

MRnomates

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I say try bending over in front of him that'll get him going it works on me.

Drop something on the floor
 
nerdgirl178

nerdgirl178

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I know he just came from the Military. I was thinking of asking him is he is going back to duty or somehting! Giving him an X-Mas card is so corny, especially Valentines Day, its so not my thing. Well whatever, its just that he is so damn social that is makes me extra nervous. well I will try to say something, even if i look like a complete idiot, atleast I tried. I think he should get to know me I am pretty fun even htought I have SP :)
 
nerdgirl178

nerdgirl178

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I would love to heard stories on how people here got his or her boyfriend/girlfirned? It'll be interesting :)
 
Dill

Dill

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Just Go for it. And talk to him. Maybe start off with a good morning and how r u?
Life Rewards the Courages Few.
 
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LilMissTragic

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Ok, Heres how I met my fiance.
I used to be on my computer a lot of the time and this one time I went to my usual chat room and a newbie came on. His screen name was Dad58...or something like that and I got chatting to him expecting him to be...well, a dad of 58 obviously. Turns out he is 23 but I didnt believe him, ya know how people lie on these things. So, being brave, i asked him to cam with me. He did and it was like WOW!. We chatted for over 6 months that way and on the phone too. He put me at ease and I told him all about my Sp at the very beginning. Turns out his mum suffers a form of mild SP and depression.
Basically, I ended up meeting him at my local train station, the bravest moment of my entire life, turns out he looked more scared than i did....lol. That gave me more confidence and we had a great time. He came back to see me 2 weeks later, said he didnt want to go home (he lives 250 miles away) so I said then dont....so he didnt and we are still together.
To think I used to think it was a sad way to meet people...lol...I take that back!
 
MRnomates

MRnomates

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Worrydoll sorry about this but are u a man or a women on some of ya posts i think ya a man and on others i think your a girl which is it sorry?
 
nerdgirl178

nerdgirl178

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MRnomates: ask him for a lift?? I have SP okay. I can barely say "Hi, How are you?" so there is no way I can ask for a lift or something. Sometimes I ask myselft how can someone with SP possibly get a b.f./g.f??!! It'll be a real turn off for some men I assume. Or maybe he doesnt like exotic girls (I am Brazilian/Mexican). anyway I did not see him today so maybe this week I will say "Are you doing anything for Christmas?" then work my way up :)
 
MRnomates

MRnomates

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i am disappointed nerdgirl :( i wanted to see

glad we got that woman man thing cleared up worrydoll i've been losing sleep
 
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