The_9th_passenger
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I simply hate the way people treats me. It's like they think I'm silly you know what I mean... they just treat me like I am inferior to them somehow even if many times is not so. I have a good body, maybe I'm not any cute but at least I've got beautiful eyes and hair, I'm fairly tall (1'75m not bad in the spanish standards), I'm in good shape (I do jogging, mountain bike and a bit of swimming), I'm clever (115 points of IC), I have a university degree at Law, dress with very good taste 8) and have a good car I bought myself last year (not a Ferrari but it's a nice little car). The only three bad things about me are: I'm ugly as hell (I think so by my little succes with women and the way they laugh when they see me), I have SP and low self-steem, I got a bad employment due to my SP and low self-confidence (or maybe I just didn't want any responsibilities).
So actually I believe they just treat me like that due to my low self-steem or low self-confidence. It's like nothing else matters.
For instance right few minuts ago I was at the supermarket getting some things to eat and there's this nice girl I always talk with cause I used to thing she was soooo nice and beautiful :wink: but as I went on trying to talk to her she more and more every day became kind of a little nasty with me. She talks to me like so other people does, just like they despise me you know... it really destroys everything I'm working on so hard, my self-steem and self confedence goes to shit instantly.
How is it that people has to treat me always that way? Some of them treat me well but then they treat me like I'm a child. Others just seem to have bad ideas about me and seem they want to hurt me with their fuckin ironic talking.
Sometimes I show myself just as I am and then they treat me like a child. Sometimes I do like I'm 100% self confident and then they seem to want to make me fall from my cloud.
I just don't know what else to do. If I'd had a tight relationship with them I'pd tell themn to stop treating me that way. (Although when I did so, some friends said they didn't actually treat me that way and some became angry with me)
I really need some advise on that. I'm starting to get seriously angry too about that. Do I have to be more agressive? I say so because i think I'm too much of a nice guy and usually can't even defend myself. I only do so when I'm really angry to the point that I shout aloud or smack someone face with my fists. But that's not good is it?
I know it's all about self-steem and self-confidence... but no one ever gave me a good clue on what should I do about it.
(please DON'T go telling me the same phrases I always hear like 'love yourself' and things like that please)
Thanks in advance. I'm really desperate about that shit.
So actually I believe they just treat me like that due to my low self-steem or low self-confidence. It's like nothing else matters.
For instance right few minuts ago I was at the supermarket getting some things to eat and there's this nice girl I always talk with cause I used to thing she was soooo nice and beautiful :wink: but as I went on trying to talk to her she more and more every day became kind of a little nasty with me. She talks to me like so other people does, just like they despise me you know... it really destroys everything I'm working on so hard, my self-steem and self confedence goes to shit instantly.
How is it that people has to treat me always that way? Some of them treat me well but then they treat me like I'm a child. Others just seem to have bad ideas about me and seem they want to hurt me with their fuckin ironic talking.
Sometimes I show myself just as I am and then they treat me like a child. Sometimes I do like I'm 100% self confident and then they seem to want to make me fall from my cloud.
I just don't know what else to do. If I'd had a tight relationship with them I'pd tell themn to stop treating me that way. (Although when I did so, some friends said they didn't actually treat me that way and some became angry with me)
I really need some advise on that. I'm starting to get seriously angry too about that. Do I have to be more agressive? I say so because i think I'm too much of a nice guy and usually can't even defend myself. I only do so when I'm really angry to the point that I shout aloud or smack someone face with my fists. But that's not good is it?
I know it's all about self-steem and self-confidence... but no one ever gave me a good clue on what should I do about it.
(please DON'T go telling me the same phrases I always hear like 'love yourself' and things like that please)
Thanks in advance. I'm really desperate about that shit.