I don't know if I'm gay or not

[dutchguy]

I'm sure a lot of psychics genuinely believe in their ability.

True, but on the other hands, all psychics also have the opportunity to test their so-called 'ability'. If I were a psychic who was asking money for his services or influencing major decisions in people's life, I would want to be one hundred percent sure that my powers are real.

Now, let's say I believed I could predict the future; why not just randomly predict one hundred events - if all of them came true to the letter, I might be on to something, but if only one of them came true, that means 99 of them were wrong and I probably don't have any special powers.

While I don't want to get into the discussion whether 'psychic powers' really exist (I think it's clear what my view is); I think we can all agree that at least a percentage of them are frauds and that if you're ever going to search for help from a psychic, try to avoid the frauds.

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

I really don't think the issue here is whether or not psychic abilities exist. It's about a girl's self-doubt and identity confusion. I did not feel that it would be helpful to imply to her that she is foolish to take a psychic seriously.

Perhaps I am wrong to think this.

 

[Pookah]

If you really want to figure out if you might be gay or not you need to think about what catches your attention. When you like a band do you focus on the female or male band members? When you like a movie, do you think about the good looking actor or the good looking actress? In whatever social situations are you noticing the boys or the girls?

For me I have found females sexually attractive before, but I have a definite preference towards men. I think of men whenever I think of being in a relationship, I cannot imagine being in a relationship with a woman. I've never thought about kissing a woman, though I have done so. I can with certainty say that I want to kiss men. If you take some time to think about these things you might arrive at an answer. Bi, straight or gay.

 

[Paahi]

Wait and see. That's what I did anyways. Worked well.