I Don't Know How to Meet People

[Interzone]

I don't know how to meet people, I don't know how to become friends with people, I don't know how to do anything social.

Suppose I had a handle on most of my anxiety but I just can't meet people because I don't know how.

And don't say the obvious join a club BS.

 

[Falkor]

meet people online? you can still be in your comfort zone at the pc, and all you have to do is make a profile somewhere (can be anonymously) and just meet people on the easiest way , a great way for shy people like us

 

[Interzone]

Unfortunately, I want face to face contact. You can't have fun with internet friends. You can only talk to them.

 

[theslowesthand]

SNAP!! (you mean in the real world right?)

But i probably don't really want to "meet" people (in real life) - lost the desire many years ago. I'm okay with internet communications though, and i don't mind such, as it's not face-to-face, or in-my-face, and i can maintain my privacy/anonymanity

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

Joining a club isn't bs because whoever is in the specific club will have similar interests as you, and there's usually at least one friendly person who will come to you and talk about that interest and possibly become friends.

 

[Falkor]

Unfortunately, I want face to face contact. You can't have fun with internet friends. You can only talk to them.

Speed dating? ::

But you know what is the cool thing about meeting people online?
You can meet them after chatting a while

Or you should try approach people, if you are up to that, or got the gutts

Maybe fitness, lots of people are doing that

 

[Interzone]

Well, I never manage to meet people that live near my city online. I usually meet people from faraway places like Canada which pretty much means we'll never meet in person!

I just want to meet people, have friends and have fun. But it seems I can never meet the right people to do this with.

And just approaching people randomly seems weird and it would be awkward.