mindfreak
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Ok, so here is the scenario:
You arrive at a party with a girl you have been talking to for a month. It hasn't gotten too serious yet, no conversation has been made making it a true exclusive relationship. But it feels that way and is certainly heading in that direction.
So at this party you introduce her with her name and not "this is my girlfriend" etc. You are talking to a couple of guys you just met and she walks up... so you introduce her. After some time one of the guys really starts hitting on her...
it progresses and she doesnt do anything...
doesnt try to let the guy know she is seeing someone...
doesnt hint to it...
doesnt try and stop him from getting really close to her... etc..
This did happen to me and the guy even jokingly proposed to her... she said yes ... and then he started referring to her as his wife...
What I ended up doing was going over there and got into there conversation then put my hand out for her to take and pulled her next to me out from under his arm...
Anyway...
My question is what are you suppose to do in this situation?
You would think that if she liked you enough she would have pulled herself away from that situation, or at least diffused it enough to show that she was just having fun not really interested...
Should you bring it up and make it a big deal even though you are not technically in an exclusive relationship?
This is something that really gets on my nerves when starting any new relationship. If you are not going to be considerate and be ignorant when a guy is hitting on you with me there then something is not right...
You arrive at a party with a girl you have been talking to for a month. It hasn't gotten too serious yet, no conversation has been made making it a true exclusive relationship. But it feels that way and is certainly heading in that direction.
So at this party you introduce her with her name and not "this is my girlfriend" etc. You are talking to a couple of guys you just met and she walks up... so you introduce her. After some time one of the guys really starts hitting on her...
it progresses and she doesnt do anything...
doesnt try to let the guy know she is seeing someone...
doesnt hint to it...
doesnt try and stop him from getting really close to her... etc..
This did happen to me and the guy even jokingly proposed to her... she said yes ... and then he started referring to her as his wife...
What I ended up doing was going over there and got into there conversation then put my hand out for her to take and pulled her next to me out from under his arm...
Anyway...
My question is what are you suppose to do in this situation?
You would think that if she liked you enough she would have pulled herself away from that situation, or at least diffused it enough to show that she was just having fun not really interested...
Should you bring it up and make it a big deal even though you are not technically in an exclusive relationship?
This is something that really gets on my nerves when starting any new relationship. If you are not going to be considerate and be ignorant when a guy is hitting on you with me there then something is not right...