dottie
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i have a friend (really its more like an aquaintance that i hang out with once or twice a year and keep in contact via net- to be specific!) anyway, she invited me to her birthday get together that was supposed to be this weekend and supposed to be a pool party- which i would've been down with. it would've been awkward and uncomfortable but i would've gone to that because it's more casual. well, the weather sucked so she said the new plan was to go to a bar.
i hate bars.
the fact that it was far-ish + i don't really know any of her friends + the fact that i've never enjoyed myself at a noisy bar... well, i didn't go. i feel bad because it's her birthday and i want her to have a great birthday. she invited a ton of people so it's not like she was totally counting on me to come.
what do i say to her? HI BARS MAKE ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE I AM A SQUARE FROM EVERY ANGLE. blah. i want to be a good friend but bars just make me cringe.
i hate bars.
the fact that it was far-ish + i don't really know any of her friends + the fact that i've never enjoyed myself at a noisy bar... well, i didn't go. i feel bad because it's her birthday and i want her to have a great birthday. she invited a ton of people so it's not like she was totally counting on me to come.
what do i say to her? HI BARS MAKE ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE I AM A SQUARE FROM EVERY ANGLE. blah. i want to be a good friend but bars just make me cringe.