sahxox
Well-known member
I start a lot of threads, but oh well lol
I can become very apathetic towards others, or I can get extremely anxious and chicken out of conversation efforts.
My effort rate is about 50/50, which is awesome cos it used to be 0.
Basically I'll give you a scenario.
One of the people at work (I've been here for two months) seems really nice and we always greet each other like old mates.
But we never talk really... it's almost like it's too late to randomly be like "so, do you have another job?" etc. so if I say something, it's relating to how long her shift is or whatever. But I'd feel stupid repeating the same question every time I work with her lol
I dunno what to say or how you could befriend someone in this situation. We've worked together too long to try and break the ice like this. Maybe I should just be like "how's your day been?" or something. Try and steal some info for next time haha
I'd have to execute such a statement with confidence, which takes effort. I said before that I only make an effort if I 100% know I won't be rejected, so it can't be said half-heartedly or it may be weird. Gahh so simple but so complex.
Similar situation with a few others who I'd actually bother with. Any icebreaking tips or casual ways to get to know them would be great
I can become very apathetic towards others, or I can get extremely anxious and chicken out of conversation efforts.
My effort rate is about 50/50, which is awesome cos it used to be 0.
Basically I'll give you a scenario.
One of the people at work (I've been here for two months) seems really nice and we always greet each other like old mates.
But we never talk really... it's almost like it's too late to randomly be like "so, do you have another job?" etc. so if I say something, it's relating to how long her shift is or whatever. But I'd feel stupid repeating the same question every time I work with her lol
I dunno what to say or how you could befriend someone in this situation. We've worked together too long to try and break the ice like this. Maybe I should just be like "how's your day been?" or something. Try and steal some info for next time haha
I'd have to execute such a statement with confidence, which takes effort. I said before that I only make an effort if I 100% know I won't be rejected, so it can't be said half-heartedly or it may be weird. Gahh so simple but so complex.
Similar situation with a few others who I'd actually bother with. Any icebreaking tips or casual ways to get to know them would be great