how to cope?

[Falkor]

hi people,
i really liked a person online
she and i made plans on meeting each other
she lives in another country , miiiiiiiiiles away
but she found someone else last week
so now all the plans are broken
how should i cope with the sadness i feel?
i feel depressed because of it very much
besides this thing i need to work on myself
because i have a huge depression not only because of this happening
so many more things
but anyways.... i think about it a lot and it makes me feel sad
i think she's gorgeous, stunningly warm personality and so sweet
but now it's gone basically
i'm happy for her luck, that she found someone though
but i feel broken inside, because we had this plan made up
and i felt so happy when we called, and skyped
and she even thought of a future with me
at lest we didnt look tickets yet, luckily
i have emotional regulation syndrome so I don't know how to deal with a lot of things
I literally crash my world everytime a dissapointment comes

oh and i'm afraid everytime i fall in love it breaks
i asked people if i'm ugly but my friends and family say noooo you're good looking
but yeah it's like a curse you know!

can someone give me advice ?

 

[MikeyC]

Oh, I hate it when someone you like gets a partner. It throws everything you like into question. I've had that many times and it's never fun.

Getting over it differs from person to person, but I hope you find a healthy way to deal with it. :sad:

 

[Falkor]

Oh, I hate it when someone you like gets a partner. It throws everything you like into question. I've had that many times and it's never fun.

Getting over it differs from person to person, but I hope you find a healthy way to deal with it. :sad:

Thnx... I'm tryin' to accept it and just focus on music and other things in life. some people said i should look for the happiness within me, and not within love