blight
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How many friends do you have that you might call or contact somehow to make plans with? I don't have any at this point in my life.
During highschool and college there were always several if not ten or more. My SA started towards the end of college I think (before that I was just a little bit shy and quiet) and since then even the friends I did have, I've started to feel uncomfortable around. It's been a few years now and I haven't had a girlfriend (I'm not even that bad looking) or made any real friends since then. My old friends I think would be very suprised to see how I live now. I have an apartment in NYC and a decent paying job but I'm always always alone. I went to grad school as well (being a book worm was easy for me) and didn't make any friends the whole 2 years I was there and I think everything has gotten worse as I've become so used to doing everything alone.
I couldn't even imagine at this point calling someone to go out to dinner or something like that and I feel time is just working furiously against me as the longer I am like this the harder it will become. I mean what if I did meet a girl and asked her out or something (not likely), how would I explain that I don't have any friends or what I do with my time. Most people couldn't even fathom a solitary life I don't think; and she would immediately think I was a complete freak.
During highschool and college there were always several if not ten or more. My SA started towards the end of college I think (before that I was just a little bit shy and quiet) and since then even the friends I did have, I've started to feel uncomfortable around. It's been a few years now and I haven't had a girlfriend (I'm not even that bad looking) or made any real friends since then. My old friends I think would be very suprised to see how I live now. I have an apartment in NYC and a decent paying job but I'm always always alone. I went to grad school as well (being a book worm was easy for me) and didn't make any friends the whole 2 years I was there and I think everything has gotten worse as I've become so used to doing everything alone.
I couldn't even imagine at this point calling someone to go out to dinner or something like that and I feel time is just working furiously against me as the longer I am like this the harder it will become. I mean what if I did meet a girl and asked her out or something (not likely), how would I explain that I don't have any friends or what I do with my time. Most people couldn't even fathom a solitary life I don't think; and she would immediately think I was a complete freak.