ichiban
Member
I've been reading this site off and on for a while now. Sometimes I really feel like I'm any normal person, but days like today I just get stuck in a funk...
I hate that it's so difficult for me to open up to people and be social. A lot of times I feel like I'm the invisible person in a group because I so rarely talk that people don't know me and just give up on trying to know me. But I'm trying to change that. And some days, I can just have a great conversation with someone and it'll just make my day. But other times, especially if I'm in a large group, I just won't have much to say. And I'll get jealous in a way of all the other people who seem to be able to talk and have fun so easily.
I wouldn't mind being like this if it didn't make me feel sad and lonely at the end of the day, when I'm back at home and I realize that I've barely spoken to anyone all day. It's worse when I have a lot of alone time to dwell on my thoughts. Sometimes I do like to be left alone, but if I have too much free time alone and I can't busy myself with something it just makes me feel lonely and disconnected.
I think I was getting a little off track there, but my point is that although I'm trying to change and be more sociable, I realize that won't happen overnight. And honestly, it doesn't matter, as long as I get to a point where I can accept myself and be content with my situation. But how do I make that happen? Thoughts/advice?
I hate that it's so difficult for me to open up to people and be social. A lot of times I feel like I'm the invisible person in a group because I so rarely talk that people don't know me and just give up on trying to know me. But I'm trying to change that. And some days, I can just have a great conversation with someone and it'll just make my day. But other times, especially if I'm in a large group, I just won't have much to say. And I'll get jealous in a way of all the other people who seem to be able to talk and have fun so easily.
I wouldn't mind being like this if it didn't make me feel sad and lonely at the end of the day, when I'm back at home and I realize that I've barely spoken to anyone all day. It's worse when I have a lot of alone time to dwell on my thoughts. Sometimes I do like to be left alone, but if I have too much free time alone and I can't busy myself with something it just makes me feel lonely and disconnected.
I think I was getting a little off track there, but my point is that although I'm trying to change and be more sociable, I realize that won't happen overnight. And honestly, it doesn't matter, as long as I get to a point where I can accept myself and be content with my situation. But how do I make that happen? Thoughts/advice?