Think I'll go have a Cadbury's in your honor - you Brits have some tasty chocolate!
Had tae be said - as someone who been playing guitar for nearly 10 years now! Can't learn anmusicalinstrument without a passion fur it! I mean, it aw well and good having a love of music. But learn to play any instrument is whole nother level!
Signs that real,decent people exist this site is better than face bonk! Real people real problems, but like I say some of the best people I haven't met lol..
Not very well. I'm still battling severe anxiety and depression. Also, a good friend (that I actually met on here ages ago) wrote me a not-so-friendly message on Facebook earlier today and has subsequently deleted me. I'm not victimizing myself here, but I would like to know what the hell his problem is with me all of a sudden. I don't know why I'm upset about it since he can simply go f*ck himself.
Not very well. I'm still battling severe anxiety and depression. Also, a good friend (that I actually met on here ages ago) wrote me a not-so-friendly message on Facebook earlier today and has subsequently deleted me. I'm not victimizing myself here, but I would like to know what the hell his problem is with me all of a sudden. I don't know why I'm upset about it since he can simply go f*ck himself.
Well, if he doesn't want anything to do with you, then leave. You can go make more friends, whether it's in real life or on here:). And it bothers you probably because he was a good friend to you, as you said. Rejection from the average person hurts, but rejection from a friend is worse. You trusted them. But, that's the thing about friendships, and relationships in general. Sometimes, time wears them down to dust. All we can do is appreciate it for what it was and move on. You'll be okay Lady.
And Tally, you've got to come to terms with your heartache. It's not going to go away unless you look it straight in the eye and accept it.
Your dark thoughts are a part of you; that's just the way it is. You need to accept that they are a part of you, not the whole you. We all have those nasty parts of ourselves that we don't want to admit are true, but they are. Facing yourself hurts, but it's the only way to overcome it and move on from it.
I'm not in denial about it as far as I can tell. What happened, happened, and I just want to get through the pain and move on.
To... what I don't know. There isn't much. But move on nonetheless.
You move on to making a better life for yourself. You improve your quality of life and have fun with your life:). "That guy" will come into your life at his own time or maybe you're done with relationships. That's all up to you.
And heartache can last sometimes. Just smile in the face of the pain. But, really, am I qualified to be talking about love and heartache:😮:? Aside from that, go give yourself some extra "shots of happiness" (even if it is shots:😛:). Enjoy a hobby and take your mind off of love.
The passage of time heals. There is no easy way to get over it. You cannot consciously do it. Tally - you may have to endure heartache, but take some comfort in the fact that it does get easier - even if it doesnt feel like it right at this moment.
I am tired. Serioulsy - could do with a few ZZZZZ's
I'm feeling pretty decent. My test wasn't so bad, and I get to hang out with a friend from out of town tomorrow. I do regret not buying strawberries today, though...
Particularly lieing down and leaning forward to touch your toes sort of eases the stress on your brain. Just hold on that position for 20 seconds as u gradually allow your muscles in your spine and legs to ease up and go forward.
I am a military wive and so my duties come high as my husbands. I was raped by one Guy and got pregnant, i then was young, innocent and had a purity ring. Another guy took advantage of what had happen after i confided in who i thought was my close friend, turned around and said these exact words "im glad he broke you in" and then raped and abused me as i fought back, killing the baby. I met my husband fell in love and got married. In the arms of a soldier i had never felt so protected and that of a truly honest and humble man. I guess i was wrong seems as we had been trying for a baby got into a big fight after a stread that we werent, he went out drinkn and CONSENTLY had sex with another women and then a man. Most days i dk which ofthese things has pushedtthat me over the edge more. That was supposed to have said "the test read we were not pregnant " my phone wont let me fix it. Lasr but not least i finally was blessed with my son who is now 2 mnths. The best thing thats ever happend for me, the love for my son is the most intense thing thats ever happend. I neglected to strap him in and he fell out of his bouncy on my ceramic tile floor off of my kitchen table hes okay but i still throw up everytime i think of it. Im the worst mom, it was highly irresponsible and i shld have been right there to make sure it ddnt happen.
Im the worst mom, it was highly irresponsible and i shld have been right there to make sure it ddnt happen.
You have a difficult story to tell but it's good that you're getting it out somehow.
Have you had any therapy at all?
I think that it could help you. Saying that you are the worst mother and believing it over one mistake you made is normal but completely untrue.
You love your child more than anything and never meant for it to happen, yes?
Then, it was a mistake. Mistakes happen- learn from them and grow to be the best mom you can be!
None of what happened was your fault and you are not a bad person for having experienced it.
That is something we all have to learn to believe in and accept in order to live a fulfilling life-- and it's not easy.
Just needed to say that.
Lately I've been feeling good (happy?) but tired. I woke up today feeling not very well but not tired (since I just woke up) and now I'm just not feeling good. I don't even know why :/
Tired, even though I had a long sleep last night, and I have a long day ahead of me with much physical activity but I will get through it because I must. I am very thankful I have a strong body and more energy than most people my age. Life has been better and it has been worse, so I am not complaining. My dog and cat appreciate me.
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