Help!! Whats wrong with me?!

ricky123

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HELP! I used to be fine, I used to be super social and talk with everybody. I didn't have a problem with talking or or being confident. I graduated high school last year and I now go to a community college. I have been super lonely and havent made any friends here. I think that is why I am having these problems.

Everyday is the same routine. Wake up. Go to class. Come home. Do homework. Go on my computer or watch tv. go to bed. This has made me super shy! I also have a hard time holding convesations with people now. I dont know what to do. I cant even hold a conversation with my parents..... I am also a lot more aware of what people will think of me. I feel that I will say something dumb or stupid. Also, when I walk I try to act cool but I am always self conscious of what people think of me.

I wasnt always like this! HELP! next year i am going to a university where all my friends are at. will my problems go away or am i stuck like this forever?
 

Lonelykitsune

Well-known member
If this has only recently happened you could still stop it. I didn't do anything about(when I used to be confident but then started feeling withdrawn) and now my shyness is really bad.

Is there any like-minded people around who you know have the same interests with you? You could try talking to them.

If your going to see your frinds again next year you'll probably be Ok.
 

Deus_Ex_Lemur

Well-known member
This just seems like normal perhaps some depression over being a part from friends; not maybe really wanting to be at this community college but at the university you are transferring to where your friends are now. Idk but you don't have SA imo, not now anyways...

I know ppl w/o SA who go from HS to a new college and this happens to many ppl.
 
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