Hi there I am new to this forum so not sure if this is the right place to put this....
My sister is a pre-op transsexual (born male).
She hasn't left the house for 2 years and keeps the curtains closed all the time and I am really worried about her. For the longest time the doctors have told us that there is nothing physically wrong with her and we have taken her for so many blood tests and all sorts of tests to make sure and they all come back fine.
But she complains that she feels weak and can't do anything. When I broach the subject of feeling anxious about going out and facing people she gets really aggressive and we argue quite a lot about it. I am sure there is some problem there as she does get trouble from people who can't understand her situation.
There are a lot of people who are mean and rude to her and laugh openly at her. I don't know how she deals with it cos when I am out and see people being that way to her I feel like punching them in the face!
People have even taken pictures of her on their phones..grrrrr
I really don't know what to do, it is such a difficult situation. I wonder how to go about getting help for her as she doesn't seem to be able to accept that there is something more than the physical wrong with her.
I know it's a toughie! but any advice on how I should talk to her? Get her to open up about how she is feeling?
My sister is a pre-op transsexual (born male).
She hasn't left the house for 2 years and keeps the curtains closed all the time and I am really worried about her. For the longest time the doctors have told us that there is nothing physically wrong with her and we have taken her for so many blood tests and all sorts of tests to make sure and they all come back fine.
But she complains that she feels weak and can't do anything. When I broach the subject of feeling anxious about going out and facing people she gets really aggressive and we argue quite a lot about it. I am sure there is some problem there as she does get trouble from people who can't understand her situation.
There are a lot of people who are mean and rude to her and laugh openly at her. I don't know how she deals with it cos when I am out and see people being that way to her I feel like punching them in the face!
People have even taken pictures of her on their phones..grrrrr
I really don't know what to do, it is such a difficult situation. I wonder how to go about getting help for her as she doesn't seem to be able to accept that there is something more than the physical wrong with her.
I know it's a toughie! but any advice on how I should talk to her? Get her to open up about how she is feeling?