Hello im Cris, im from Puerto Rico, I play videogames, was a former green belt, I like anime and im overly nice to people.
I have had social phobia for 7 years(5 years since it got really bad), spent most of middleschool and highschool without any friends, always alone. Things did get better at the very end of highschool and I got a friend(who happenned to be the girl I have had a crush on for 4 years....) she helped me out with my SP and I have always been there for her as well and she became my best friend. But now im in college she doesn't text me much and I have no friends in college, again im alone. I though that things where finally getting better for me, but I was wrong and I have taken many steps back since college started earlier this year.
Im a very positive guy, but my SP has been ruining my life and making me negative, I know it's all in my head, but I keep struggling. It's hard staying optimistic, my grades have gotten worse and im lost. Im very depressed, I can't sleep, my best friend seems to be ignoring me this month, I can't talk to her anymore about my SP because I don't want her to see me like this anymore. I know this isn't me, I refuse to accept this as me, im not a loner, I love socializing I just can't do it.
I don't know why im here, I don't know why im posting, I guess I just can't stand feeling alone because the pain is too much. There is a lot more that I could write, but I don't want to make this any longer.
But on a different note, as depressed as I am right now, I know that things can get better and the pain will eventually be replaced by strenght. I just hope it happens soon...
I have had social phobia for 7 years(5 years since it got really bad), spent most of middleschool and highschool without any friends, always alone. Things did get better at the very end of highschool and I got a friend(who happenned to be the girl I have had a crush on for 4 years....) she helped me out with my SP and I have always been there for her as well and she became my best friend. But now im in college she doesn't text me much and I have no friends in college, again im alone. I though that things where finally getting better for me, but I was wrong and I have taken many steps back since college started earlier this year.
Im a very positive guy, but my SP has been ruining my life and making me negative, I know it's all in my head, but I keep struggling. It's hard staying optimistic, my grades have gotten worse and im lost. Im very depressed, I can't sleep, my best friend seems to be ignoring me this month, I can't talk to her anymore about my SP because I don't want her to see me like this anymore. I know this isn't me, I refuse to accept this as me, im not a loner, I love socializing I just can't do it.
I don't know why im here, I don't know why im posting, I guess I just can't stand feeling alone because the pain is too much. There is a lot more that I could write, but I don't want to make this any longer.
But on a different note, as depressed as I am right now, I know that things can get better and the pain will eventually be replaced by strenght. I just hope it happens soon...
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