PerseverareJasmine
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I've always felt like one in mine. For one thing, for as long as I can remember I've had a different taste in the music I listen to, the shows I watch, the activities I enjoy doing, etc than the rest of my family. I've always put in the effort to give the things they like a try, and they've always done the same for me, but at times it felt like it was a strained effort on both our parts, just something we were doing because otherwise we wouldn't be spending much time together due to us having such different opinions on things. The biggest difference between me, my dad, my mom, and my sister however is that they are generally very extroverted when in public, while I on the other hand, am very shy, nervous, and quiet. They can go out and look people right in their eyes or can strike up a conversation with a random stranger, while I get a little nervous just talking to a cashier while I'm purchasing something, and have problems with holding eye contact. They've never quite understood why I am the way I am, and they've called me out on it often, saying things like "Why are you so nervous around people?" or "Just act like you do when you're in the house". I honestly can't blame them because even I wish all of my anxiety about being around people could just recede over night, and that I could act around strangers how I act around my family, and I know that my family loves me and wants what's best for me, but sometimes I feel its as if they are embarrassed to go out in public with me by the way they act towards my shyness and anxiety. Sometimes I wish they could understand that it is something I've been working on, and that no matter how much I wish it could be possible, that its not simply going to fade away overnight. So, my question is, has anyone else felt like this as well?