I was lucky my sister did mine being a hairdresser but now i have moved i get a mobile hairdresser, she comes to my house and gives me a trim, it does not take long usually 30 mins and she is gone. saves going into a shopping centre and sitting in the salon with lots of other people.
I die my own hair and highlight it, there are lots of hair products that die and you can highlight your own hair with a wand, maybe Loreal or something like that, hopefully they have where you live just look at chemists or local shops, it works pretty well and does not look dodgy at all :wink:
btw used to cut my own hair, just the ends so i didnt have to get it cut at hairdressers but it looked a bit wonky, went to the hairdresser and was embarrased but she just gave me a friendly smile, a tiny lecture about cutting my own hair and that was about all that was said.