Got what i always wanted but...

[Bar-AKA-Redzer]

i'm not happy, infact i'm so fukin sad ::::

Its what i wanted for so long i always thought i would be happy once i got it.
I got a chance to meet this girl i'm crazy about i told her i loved her an all she used to love me then she said she did'nt, that broke my heart and sent me into depression and onto anti-depressants then she said she did'nt know, but i love her so much still and i get to see her next week but i'm not happy, i guess i just wish she loved me back thats all ::

 

[LycraPantiies92]

I hate when i have feelings for someone that obviously doesn't have any back..even in the slightest ]:
All you can do is keep your chin up, she won't be the last [: keep her as a friend if you can..aww *hugs you*
I hope you're okay there. xx

 

[Bar-AKA-Redzer]

i'm trying to keep her as a friens but its so hard because she knows i love her and she dont feel the same and it hurts so bad to see her and know that she dont love me

 

[danstelter]

i'm trying to keep her as a friens but its so hard because she knows i love her and she dont feel the same and it hurts so bad to see her and know that she dont love me

Unfortunately this is the way the world works sometimes, and I have been in this situation too. What I learned since then is that there are other people out there, and this person whom I believed to be so great because I had such strong feelings for her was in fact not that great at all. Yes, it does hurt, and this hemming and hawing that she is doing that she is not sure is only leading you on...best to cut your losses and move on. Be sure to grieve and talk to people as needed while you get over this. But, remember that now you get to show her what she missed out on now that you can focus your time on other hobbies and women and show how great you are!

 

[PennyLane]

Thats really sad, sorry to hear it! Unrequited love is a bitch.

Personally I find staying friends near impossible. I say a clean break so you never have to think about her again. Thats what works for me anyway. I'm able to be friends after maybe a year or 2 but I need that space first.

You won't want to hear this.....but in time it will stop hurting!

 

[Bar-AKA-Redzer]

ahh i was hoping that if she seen me she might change her mind but she just told me that she is in ireland with her b/f ahh **** it i'm ****in heartbroken **** sake

 

[mads]

PennyLane has imo a very good point.

You have to stop contacting this girl, you can´t make her like you and dont get your mind up to that it will change, as it will just hurt even more if you do.