steviegerrard489
Well-known member
Well not quite a date. It is just me and a girl and we're going to a comedy show and possibly to a noodle place beforehand.
I say it's not a date because she has a boyfriend. They hav been going out for about 3 months. I've never met him as I only know the girl through work and have not been out socially with her other than at work outings. She sat at the desk next to me for 6 months until she went to a different department - that's how I know her.
She is really popular and has a close circle of friends (I've seen through Facebook). Fortunately, she doesn't know I'm a bit of a loser who only really has 2 good friends outside of work! They live 300 miles away.
I know I need to show some bottle if I want to get anything out of this situation. I heard she likes quite arrogant, outgoing types judging by what I heard about her previous and current boyfriend.
That would seem to rule me out but you never know. I'm going to place a fair deal of importance on the way she looks/dresses when we go this gig. If she's quite 'made up' then I guess we could be on a 'proper date' because normally she just goes for the natural look.
You might wonder why I'm willing to go out with a girl who has a boyfriend. Well for starters, my diary is pretty empty! And secondly, she told me how she didn't want to get stuck in a serious relationship after she moved to London. (She split with a guy she had been with for 2.5 years).
I say it's not a date because she has a boyfriend. They hav been going out for about 3 months. I've never met him as I only know the girl through work and have not been out socially with her other than at work outings. She sat at the desk next to me for 6 months until she went to a different department - that's how I know her.
She is really popular and has a close circle of friends (I've seen through Facebook). Fortunately, she doesn't know I'm a bit of a loser who only really has 2 good friends outside of work! They live 300 miles away.
I know I need to show some bottle if I want to get anything out of this situation. I heard she likes quite arrogant, outgoing types judging by what I heard about her previous and current boyfriend.
That would seem to rule me out but you never know. I'm going to place a fair deal of importance on the way she looks/dresses when we go this gig. If she's quite 'made up' then I guess we could be on a 'proper date' because normally she just goes for the natural look.
You might wonder why I'm willing to go out with a girl who has a boyfriend. Well for starters, my diary is pretty empty! And secondly, she told me how she didn't want to get stuck in a serious relationship after she moved to London. (She split with a guy she had been with for 2.5 years).