going out by yourself on weekends

chris420

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ld323 said:
Working ALOT in general really helps to curb feelings of isolation from not having friends or a girlfriend. And if you don't need the money or can't find a job, volunteer. Volunteer jobs are almost always open somewhere..

No substitute for going out with friends IMO. Just makes your life rather vacuous and meaningless (did this for about a year)

I'm probably going to start going to gigs every week. I'm a huge music fan, and I think it's a pretty acceptable thing to do on your own..
 

ld323

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blonderedhead said:
I once went to a film by myself when I was about 12 and I swear finding a seat in the dark crowded theatre was like walking death row. And once I sat down I cried the entire time. It was horrible and terrifying! So I never really go out alone. I wish I wasn't so insecure and sensitive because I think I would really love to do things on my own.


I've been going to the movies by myself my whole life. I mean I've gone with friends before, but not nearly as much as I've gone myself. Especially the past 7+ years since I lost all my friends (long story).

For the most part I enjoy going to the movies alone because it's easier to concentrate on the story- no distractions. And I only like to check out a movie long after it's popular, that way, the theater is practically empty. I definately don't like going by myself when a theater is full and I have to sit right next to strangers. I would rather not go.

I remember once I saw Pearl Harbor when it first came out (I think 2001). Don't know why I cared at the time (Ben Affleck is a lame dramatic actor). Anyways the cinema was packed. I had to sit in the middle of a row, and right in between 2 ladies. I felt like such a weirdo loner freak. Fortunately I was wearing a hoodie so I put on my hood and left it there the entire film. This way I could not see the people sitting next to me, as my peripheral vision was blocked from the hood. By the way, the movie sucked big time and was very long- which made it all the more torturous. Thinking back, I should have just walked out and into another movie. I'm older now and wouldn't stand for that crap anymore.
 
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