InTheShadows
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I tried posting this asking for advice on Yahoo Answers but all I get is idiots saying "beer and drugs" or "grow some balls" so i thought I'd ask on here as people here will probably know what I mean better.
I am going back to College (UK style college, not US style college) in September after a couple of years of not doing much. Anyway let's get to the point, my question is how do I make friends, I'm extremly shy (probably even have Social Phobia) and find it really hard to talk to people, the thing is I don't want to be the guy who always sits on his own and never takes part in class. I went to the same college about 3 years ago and met some cool people who I see now and then to this day, but that was only because they came over to me, I would like to make some proper friends, who I cna see often , or even meet the "girl of my dreams" but have no clue how to go about it. I'd appreciate any advice, I'm 19 btw.
I am going back to College (UK style college, not US style college) in September after a couple of years of not doing much. Anyway let's get to the point, my question is how do I make friends, I'm extremly shy (probably even have Social Phobia) and find it really hard to talk to people, the thing is I don't want to be the guy who always sits on his own and never takes part in class. I went to the same college about 3 years ago and met some cool people who I see now and then to this day, but that was only because they came over to me, I would like to make some proper friends, who I cna see often , or even meet the "girl of my dreams" but have no clue how to go about it. I'd appreciate any advice, I'm 19 btw.