the only thing stopping me from killing myself is because i am afraid of dying...people have told me to think of my loved ones but i just cant help but feel miserable...no one understands...i just want to let out my frustrations...
i am 26 this year and currently in the final year of university. i live in Singapore.
I am a very shy person.At home and outside in public, i am totally 2 different person. at home i can be 'myself' talking to my family without any fear. but in public i am totally mute and would not talk or interact with anyone as i was very afraid(i don't know how that fear came about).
by the time i got to sec school, things got 'worse' for me. i became more shy and quiet and started to avoid people. i onlt had a friend that would talk to me occassionally, but then i wonder if they are really being true friends. sometimes they would make fun of me. i still remember clearly during games day, when all the students are playing games, i would just sit at my own table, putting my head down and pretending to sleep. my heart told me to join them but i was just too shy and afraid to do so. during sec 3 , i suffered a 'traumatic' experience. i was in the military band and on that day i was urgent and needed to go to the toilet. but i did not dare to ask the band rep for persmission and as a result i urinated in the classroom. i still remembered that the stares from the other student, and after that i ran to the toilet and cried. the next day i overheard some of the students talking about my incident. one of them even mocked me, saying that i had 'lost control'. i felt deeply ashamed and my self esteem hit rock bottom since then.
now i am already 26 but i feel that i have accomplished nothing. i believe i have agoraphobia and i am seeing a counsellor in school and a psycologst ouside at the moment. but it seems to be not helping much. its not like i have not tried, i have seen improvements when i had my first depression, but then the bad feeling comes back to haunt me....
i cant find any motivation to do anything. i am homebound most of the time and isolating myself from the outside world. i feel that my life is meaningless...why not die? when i have absolutely no goals......no friends...nothing to work for in life....
i feel lost, pls help me...
i am 26 this year and currently in the final year of university. i live in Singapore.
I am a very shy person.At home and outside in public, i am totally 2 different person. at home i can be 'myself' talking to my family without any fear. but in public i am totally mute and would not talk or interact with anyone as i was very afraid(i don't know how that fear came about).
by the time i got to sec school, things got 'worse' for me. i became more shy and quiet and started to avoid people. i onlt had a friend that would talk to me occassionally, but then i wonder if they are really being true friends. sometimes they would make fun of me. i still remember clearly during games day, when all the students are playing games, i would just sit at my own table, putting my head down and pretending to sleep. my heart told me to join them but i was just too shy and afraid to do so. during sec 3 , i suffered a 'traumatic' experience. i was in the military band and on that day i was urgent and needed to go to the toilet. but i did not dare to ask the band rep for persmission and as a result i urinated in the classroom. i still remembered that the stares from the other student, and after that i ran to the toilet and cried. the next day i overheard some of the students talking about my incident. one of them even mocked me, saying that i had 'lost control'. i felt deeply ashamed and my self esteem hit rock bottom since then.
now i am already 26 but i feel that i have accomplished nothing. i believe i have agoraphobia and i am seeing a counsellor in school and a psycologst ouside at the moment. but it seems to be not helping much. its not like i have not tried, i have seen improvements when i had my first depression, but then the bad feeling comes back to haunt me....
i cant find any motivation to do anything. i am homebound most of the time and isolating myself from the outside world. i feel that my life is meaningless...why not die? when i have absolutely no goals......no friends...nothing to work for in life....
i feel lost, pls help me...