girls..jealous when bf talks to another girl?

[PennyLane]

I dont even know why people put all their emotions into people who dont even love them. And people have a hard time finding out whether the person, loves them or not. Take relationships with a grain of salt. If the perosn loves you you should really know. Jealousy is an insecurity. And I think people get jealous when they know the person doesnt really love them, and the jealousy part is a means to control them. They just cant accept they dont own the person.

My boyfriend told me he loved me, his actions showed that he loved me and we were very happy (so I thought) and he still cheated. When I found out he begged and cried and said she means nothing I only love you...blah blah blah.

Jealousy isn't about control, in fact he used to tell me I was too soft and let him do what he wanted too much. I never once said dont do something or dont talk to someone.

 

[PennyLane]

So basically he admitted you were gullible it seems. Well, he didnt love you cause hes not with you anymore.

Lovely thanks.

 

[Danfalc]

Yeah I think a degree of jelousy is normal it can even be flattering.If something or someone means a lot to you,you will be scared of loosing them because they are precious to you,I think most people get jelous at some point,it's how you deal with is as a couple that makes or breaks you.