Get so deppressed at weekends

[cocobeware]

Does anybody else get so deppressed at the weekends that they feel like just ending it.Coz i get like this every friday and saturday night.

 

[Septor]

I know the feeling you are talking a bout.Seems to get worse the older I get

 

[cocobeware]

yeah every weekend now,I think about suicide,theres only so much you can take,what a waste of a life having sp is.

 

[Septor]

I hear you there.It is a waste and there only so much time you have.Sp has wasted most of my life.

 

[bashfulgirl]

Hang in there Cocobeware. I have felt like ending all so many times thru the years, but I finally feel a lot better knowing that so many people on this site can relate to the crap I've had in my head all these years. I'm not alone in SA and it's not my fault that I have it and not your fault that you have it. I'm working every day to put good thots in my head. But mostly I feel relieved that other people understand. I'm sorry you feel so lousy on Friday and Sat nites

 

[SilentOutlaw]

You should never give up on life. As much as you hate what kind of life you are living right now. There is always a chance that something will change in the future for the better. There are people in third world countries who have to worry about losing their lives everyday. We should be thankful we live where we do and have a chance to live. Even if you don't feel like your living an outgoing exciting life, it is still a lot better then no life at all, and who knows what good things the future may hold for you.

 

[bonafide]

I find myself being MORE at ease on the weekends because, I guess I can isolate myself and be alone and think more clearly.

How is it affecting your life?

 

[bimbo45]

I hate the week ends!

I know the feeling mate! I hate the weekends too, so depressing!

 

[Richey]

You are lucky bonafide. I am surrounded by family who hassel me about not having a social life and revert to making sarcastic remarks about it.
When i do go out i get comments like "Hooray" or "So you actually have friends". I'm guessing that you live on your own and therefore are able to control when you see people bonafide?

 

[bonafide]

Yes I do live on my own, well, with a roommate. Isolation is easy...however, I do get hounded by family/friends who are concerned about me. Well, that isn't a BAD thing...at least I know they care!

I know we are all sick and tired of being controlled by these fears. I have such a hard time explaining this to the "average joe". Our attitude and state of mind do control how we view life. I can rationally see these fears are ridiculous, yet I feel controlled by my feelings.

 

[DazedNConfused]

Yeah, I know it sucks being alone on Friday and Saturday. And if you don't like to drink too much, it makes it even harder to find things to do! One thing you might want to try, if you're religous, is church (a few have Sat night service). I know it sounds cliche, but there are a lot of quality, caring people there, and if you find the right one (not all of them are of the fire and brimstone variety, try a non-denominational one), you might be pleasantly surprised by the people you find there (as well as the service).

I also know how it feels when you're family hounds you about your lack of a social life, I used to get that all the time until I told my family how that makes me feel. Because mostly they're good people that genuinely care about me, they pretty much don't bug me about it anymore, and realize I have to take this thing at my own pace! You might want to try the same thing with you're family. It's cool that you are grounded enough to realize that they're just doing it because they love you and care about you.

Hope things get better for all of us, and
Peace!
Dazed