IcarusUnderWater2
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Fuming with Envy!!!
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Edith
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When I was in University it was SOO hard... there were parties all the time on my floor in res and I would think, "That sounds like fun... maybe I could do that too" and sometimes I would even have the balls to leave my room and walk near the party hoping to be called in. And whenever I WAS called over with, "Hey!! Girl we never see!! Come in and have a drink with us!!" I would smile awkawrdly, mumble something incoherant and walk away. Till eventually I stopped trying and they stopped calling me over.
I've been there. I still have trouble doing things on my own sometimes. But instead of thinking about it I just do it... and I find that if you walk into a bar and there are people partying and having a great time, just grab a beer and join them. They will never say fuck off. I DARE you to try it and I bet they will not tell you to get lost. It's weird actually... I almost dare you to TRY and get them to tell you to fuck off! :wink:
Seriously, I know it's hard and I don't normally have the balls to do it, but sometimes we all have those bursts of confidence and those "great days" so next time you have one of those just go for it.
You are WAY MORE fun than you give yourself credit for. You could let yourself have loads and loads of fun :wink:
I've been there. I still have trouble doing things on my own sometimes. But instead of thinking about it I just do it... and I find that if you walk into a bar and there are people partying and having a great time, just grab a beer and join them. They will never say fuck off. I DARE you to try it and I bet they will not tell you to get lost. It's weird actually... I almost dare you to TRY and get them to tell you to fuck off! :wink:
Seriously, I know it's hard and I don't normally have the balls to do it, but sometimes we all have those bursts of confidence and those "great days" so next time you have one of those just go for it.
You are WAY MORE fun than you give yourself credit for. You could let yourself have loads and loads of fun :wink:
shield
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I quit university because I felt like u. I felt so left out and inferior. U are really lucky that u are so young and u can surely overcome this problem. And when u do u will still have ur whole life ahead of you but u will be a much more rounded and multi-dimensional peron than the boring 2-d person that has been popular all their life :wink:
shield
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OK well I wud not worry at all sp only takes 6 months to 2 years to recover from. U can quickly gain all the experience u need and live the life u want with some consistent application, and like I said u will still be super young. And don't feel ur missing out on Uni life u can have loads of fun while ur working and u can date students when ur older I know I sure do lol
TAMPA-BAY
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I agree with shield and the rest. We all act like our life is already over. Wasteing our time looking at our past.
My favorite saying is "its not how we start but how we finish"... Ok life is not the way we want it so far but no condition is permenent. All of those people you/we see haveing fun half are pretending; the other half will not be having fun in the future whiles you are the life of the party.
Listen to me. Your time will come. You/we need to foucs on dealing with this anxiety crap now and every thing will fall into place later.
I agree with shield and the rest. We all act like our life is already over. Wasteing our time looking at our past.
My favorite saying is "its not how we start but how we finish"... Ok life is not the way we want it so far but no condition is permenent. All of those people you/we see haveing fun half are pretending; the other half will not be having fun in the future whiles you are the life of the party.
Listen to me. Your time will come. You/we need to foucs on dealing with this anxiety crap now and every thing will fall into place later.
recluse
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I remember doing exactly the same. I was driving past and i saw all these young people my age dressed up and i felt such a loser becasue here i was driving past them all alone, with no friends to do ''normal'' stuff with. I felt like they were all looking at me and laughing at me becasue i am a loser.
