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Hi! I`ve been visiting this site for over a year and `ve had an acc for a while but i rarely used it(out of laziness i guess..:-??)....Let's begin with this: I hate my life which is being ruined by this f**king SA thing...I wish i could be like other people who are dumb but can make friendship...Anyway....my situation is kinda like this: i had friends who talked me behind my back (one of them is my classmate), i stopped going out with them( i still talk with them, but rarely, and our relationship is strained) ... I can tell you that after i`ve dumped them i felt much more better because i wasn't bullied , however i spend much of my time at home ( except fridays and weekends when i go out with some of my classmates) .It sucks stayng home alone, knowing no one cares about you , wasting your time with useless things....
At the moment i have one best friend (who is kinda popular and talks to me about his relationships etc , but of course, i can't tell him nothing about mine cause i have no life.....i thing he knows that , but he`s been rather supportive so i owe him that) and several friends. The thing that bothers me is that while i can have small talk with someone and can make them laugh sometimes our relationships i stuck at that point , because i don't know how to take it further...For example i can talk with girls that are my classmates, i can make them laugh but i can't go farther than that. They don't tell me their problems , i don't even have their number(that's only the case for girls). It bugs me that all the classmates are keeping in touch which other , just i can't do that.....i can't even talk to them online because i don't know what to say not necessarily because i'm afraid.
I think that i can't make a relationship to go further because i was bullied in the past and now i have the impression that most the people are superficial and talk each other behind their backs,which is really affecting my social life.
PS. i'm in my junior year and plan to go to a college or uni and want to be able to have real friends
PS1 Sorry if my writing is bad, english is my second language, but if u spot somthing wrong with my writing u can tell me as i plan to take CAE(cambridge advanced) exam in june
At the moment i have one best friend (who is kinda popular and talks to me about his relationships etc , but of course, i can't tell him nothing about mine cause i have no life.....i thing he knows that , but he`s been rather supportive so i owe him that) and several friends. The thing that bothers me is that while i can have small talk with someone and can make them laugh sometimes our relationships i stuck at that point , because i don't know how to take it further...For example i can talk with girls that are my classmates, i can make them laugh but i can't go farther than that. They don't tell me their problems , i don't even have their number(that's only the case for girls). It bugs me that all the classmates are keeping in touch which other , just i can't do that.....i can't even talk to them online because i don't know what to say not necessarily because i'm afraid.
I think that i can't make a relationship to go further because i was bullied in the past and now i have the impression that most the people are superficial and talk each other behind their backs,which is really affecting my social life.
PS. i'm in my junior year and plan to go to a college or uni and want to be able to have real friends
PS1 Sorry if my writing is bad, english is my second language, but if u spot somthing wrong with my writing u can tell me as i plan to take CAE(cambridge advanced) exam in june