Friends- Important?

treffin

treffin

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Who thinks that friends are important? I think they are, but only to certain people. Friends aren't of great importance to me, and I'm happy with only a few, while others (most people I think) need friends to be happy, and are only very happy with many of them).

If I didn't have friends, I think I'd still be happy, just a bit less.
 
4seasons

4seasons

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Friends is all I miss since since i moved. I also think at my age making new friends is hard anyway, so my SA just adds to it. Friends are defiantly important, I'd be happy with just a girlfriend though.
 
creep_x

creep_x

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Friends are important but I think theres something even more important than that, its passion. Different people may have different passions such as art, reading or whatever. My passion is what keeps me alive rather than the possibility of having friends
 
treffin

treffin

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creep_x said:
Friends are important but I think theres something even more important than that, its passion. Different people may have different passions such as art, reading or whatever. My passion is what keeps me alive rather than the possibility of having friends
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I agree with that. If you didn't have any interests/hobbies or friends, you probably would be happy.
 
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xSleepy

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Hmmmm, hard question. I think having friends is somewhat important. I guess you could say I have one friend, but I dont see her that much. She does call me a lot. Almost everyday actually.

But before when she didnt used to call so much I would kinda lose my mind. Like I could sometimes go a whole month with absolutley no human contact what so ever. Then I would start to go a little crazy and think weird stuff. But then shed call and make it all better, lol.


But I would never want like 10 friends. Thats too much to handle. And its really hard to find a really good friend. Ecspecially for me. Well and probably for everyone else on here :wink:
 
treffin

treffin

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you probably would be happy.
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I meant wouldn't, not would. And in response to what SleepingBeauty said, I have trouble making friends because the interests and hobbies of most people my age doesn't make them potential friends.
 
jamez

jamez

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I think it's top priority while growing up and I never had many friends. In the long term, I'd say family is most important.
 
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slimjim119

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Having friends is extremely important. You don't feel so isolated and it gives you an opportunity to do things you wouldn't normally do.
 
Zettie

Zettie

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It's strange..I think I want friends but when I'm thrown into a social situation I only want to get out of the situation! I do have one or two close friends but I could never be 100% comfortable and myself with them. To me my closest friends are the characters from my books and movies.. :)
 
bretters

bretters

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I would love some friends. the trouble with me is i have bad taste in them, i always feel like the doormat, like they wanna be somewhere else.

I agree with alot of thoughts on here, but im not sure my SA suites friends.

I cant be this hard to find nice people to talk to now and again....
 
coriander1992

coriander1992

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Having a large group of friends doesn't interest me, but I wouldn't want to be without atleast one friend.

I have only one friend at the moment, and she's likely the best friend i've ever, and will ever have. The downside is that my SA causes me to think that i'm not good enough for her, and that she might go and find somebody better than me...so I get quite possesive and jealous if she even speaks to other people sometimes, despite the fact that I know it's wrong to be like that.
 
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