noblame4
Well-known member
Hey all! I'm pretty new to the forum (Im happy to have found it!) actually, ive been lurking for a while, and now i feel the need to gripe about something~ small talk.
Ugh, it's the worst! I suck at it! Im taking a class to get my NA1 licence renued, the room is small and the class is full, so I have to sit at a table with three other girls my age. At first i was glad, because my only two friends moved away a couple of weeks ago, and i was hoping maybe i could make some new ones, (yea, right.) But im so bad at talking to people! Everytime someone talks to me, my mind goes blank, and i cant think of anything to say! The first few days, they'd try and chat with me, and it'd go like this, "Whew! Cold today, isnt it?! I'm freezing!" "...Yea. It is cold." "Today at work, I had eleven trays of sandwiches to make in two hours, i'm beat!" "...Im sorry." and so on, untill now they all talk amongst themselves, around me, and they only talk to me when they need to borrow something. I know perfectly well i could chime in at any time, but I've got nothing to chime in with! My job is boring, I've got no kids, and the only boyfriend i had was right out of highschool, three years ago (this topic is beyond passe.) Now everyone in the class has broken up into groups that hang out with each other during breaks, and i have to go smoke in my car alone, agh! I've been in this situation more times than i care to remember, but it still depresses the hell out of me.
So, any suggestions? Gripes, anyone?
Ugh, it's the worst! I suck at it! Im taking a class to get my NA1 licence renued, the room is small and the class is full, so I have to sit at a table with three other girls my age. At first i was glad, because my only two friends moved away a couple of weeks ago, and i was hoping maybe i could make some new ones, (yea, right.) But im so bad at talking to people! Everytime someone talks to me, my mind goes blank, and i cant think of anything to say! The first few days, they'd try and chat with me, and it'd go like this, "Whew! Cold today, isnt it?! I'm freezing!" "...Yea. It is cold." "Today at work, I had eleven trays of sandwiches to make in two hours, i'm beat!" "...Im sorry." and so on, untill now they all talk amongst themselves, around me, and they only talk to me when they need to borrow something. I know perfectly well i could chime in at any time, but I've got nothing to chime in with! My job is boring, I've got no kids, and the only boyfriend i had was right out of highschool, three years ago (this topic is beyond passe.) Now everyone in the class has broken up into groups that hang out with each other during breaks, and i have to go smoke in my car alone, agh! I've been in this situation more times than i care to remember, but it still depresses the hell out of me.
So, any suggestions? Gripes, anyone?